Surely you have repeatedly noticed that communication with some people causes a storm of positive emotions, it is easy and comfortable in their company. At the same time, after a fleeting conversation with others, you feel like you have been put through a meat grinder - a bad mood, headache, apathy, unwillingness to do anything, irritability completely unsettle. In society, such characters are called "energy vampires" and clearly outline the circle characteristic features. No, not the pallor of the skin and the intention of the ghoul to dig into your vein, but rather the desire to feed on the very energy that he himself lacks.
Is this a myth or reality?
While bioenergy experts advise making talismans and carrying hamsa and Fatima's eye in your pocket, professional psychologists, among them Eric Berne, argue that there is no such thing as vampirism.
And everything that happens is just psychological games. The person is simply unpleasant, that's what infuriates.
It is not going to get into your prana and qi. Well, the conditional vampires themselves are unloved boys and girls, out of habit transferring children's problems to those around them.
All of them have a direct road to psychotherapists. So, we figure out how to identify the bloodsucker and how to deal with it.
Find out if energy vampires exist.
Signs of exposure to energy vampires
As you know, when good and bad person, the latter uses the good while there is something to use, and goes in search of a new victim.
The so-called conditional energy vampire can not be considered directly bad - often people stick to other people's positive emotions unconsciously.
They just don't know how to do it any other way. Our task is either to explain to them what's what, or to distance ourselves as much as possible.
By the way, on the net you can find a nice formula for calculating personal vampirism.
To do this, add up all the numbers in the date of birth until you get a single digit.
If your number is less than four - you do not have energy, but sadness, the vampire has been detected.
From five to seven - you are within the normal range. Eight / nine - you are a voluntary donor and gladly give away part of the energy that you have, like pimples on polyethylene.
Understanding that you have become an energy donor is quite simple.
In fact, from time to time everyone can be an eater of someone else's positive - everyone has problems and a bad mood.
We are not always able to carry it in ourselves, and therefore we dump it on others.
Psychologists, by the way, advise exactly this: speak out and free yourself. It remains to find unoccupied consonant ears.
But some people manage to become almost real energy vampires, turning their dissatisfaction and whining into a field of activity.
Energy vampirism is caused by a violation of energy exchange in a certain person, in connection with which he is fed with the vital forces of others, whether he understands this or not. Moreover, any person can become a vampire, regardless of his age and gender.
Usually depression, hidden grievances, envy, anger and malice, strong constant discontent, fear of something are the true cause of energy imbalances. Energy channels do not cope with such emotions, they form a kind of traffic jam. The result of this is that the owner of depression cannot fully relax and even sleep because of the eternal tension. nervous system, work is disrupted internal organs person. The results of vampirism can be general anger, disorder in life, longing and depression.
External factors of this are capriciousness, irritability, tearfulness, or, on the contrary, aggressiveness, rudeness. It all depends on what type the energy vampire belongs to - “solar” or “lunar”. This is especially expressed in advanced age or in severe illness. In old age and when transferring very serious illness have to spend a lot vitality. It is because of the lack of his own powers that the vampire begins to take energy from others. Energy vampires literally drink energy from strong and energetic people, as if they are their donors.
There are three ways of "work" energy vampires:
1. The entry of the vampire into resonance with the energy of the "victim". The energy thief complains about his unfair fate, suffers, cries, roars, in a word, evokes sympathy or a feeling of pity from the interlocutor, swearing at his own unsettled life. At this moment, his opponent tunes in to his wave, as if entering his emotional condition, he also becomes sad, and the energy vampire at this moment is "saturated" with energy. To protect yourself from this type of vampires, you need to communicate with them less often, listen less to their mental suffering. In the case when this is simply impossible, it is better to withdraw into yourself at the moments of their complaints and suffering, try to immerse yourself less in the situations they describe and not to empathize cordially. Alternatively, you can quickly change the subject of the conversation.
2. Another option for energy vampires to “get enough” is to cause an emotional outburst in a person, some kind of strong surge of emotions. The fact is that together with emotions we throw away vital energy, and the vampire provokes us to a scandal, a quarrel, or insults, snarls and finds fault. Contrary to this technique, sometimes an energy vampire gives compliments to a person in every possible way, flatters him, lulls his vigilance, makes him tune in to the same wavelength with himself. The opponent begins to trust him and unconsciously removes the protection of energy from the hands of others - the biofield, allowing him to penetrate into the source of energy forces. And that was all he needed. In order not to succumb to such methods of “sucking out” energy, it is better not to succumb to various squabbles and quarrels. With laudatory odes, an attempt to please you with sweet speeches, it is better to remain calm and remain neutral, not taking flattery and praise to heart.
3. Those who can protect themselves from the "sucking" of energy by emotional means will not be saved by the physical influence of a vampire on a person. These people are very often demanding of others about their person. They may ask to be touched, stroked, massaged, or sit close to them when they are in bed. When this vampire is very dear to you, but sick, you can tie a red woolen thread around your wrists. Moreover, not wrapping it, but tying it in a knot. Thus, access to your energy will be blocked. Houseplants able to energize the patient if placed next to his bed. A huge number of energy vampires live in crowded places - in public transport, in government agencies, kindergartens and schools, in shops and shopping centers.
Those who, nevertheless, the energy vampire “sucked” their energy, can be advised to recover with the help of a walk, a contrast shower, a mug of fragrant hot tea infused with St. John's wort, nettle or elecampane root with the addition of a spoonful of honey.
Theft of vitality from any person can be determined by the following signs:
Feeling suddenly tired or suddenly sleepy;
- periodic diseases, decreased immunity, general malaise, not connected with anything, at first glance;
- a constant feeling of fatigue, laziness, unwillingness to do anything necessary;
- with the constant presence of a vampire next to the victim, she develops internal and external unreasonable irritation;
- a person is constantly worried about something, without understanding the reason for this;
- the body of the victim is subject to rapid aging.
Rapid aging is due to the fact that a vampire can possess special skills and take away the entire life energy of his victim. The aging and withering of the victim goes at a very fast pace, and the vampire becomes stronger right before our eyes. In order to avoid this, you should:
1. Never talk to an energy vampire. He should by all means cause a negative emotional outburst in you, provoking and trying to speak. Better to just keep quiet and smile a little. If you simply do not listen to your opponent, you can deprive him of possible "access" to your energy, and thus protect yourself. When such a person is close friend or a relative, it’s better to just explain to him that he is very important to you, but still let him solve problems in his life on his own.
2. You should not talk to an energy vampire, looking into each other's eyes. Eyes, as you know, are the mirror of the soul, and energy accumulates in the soul of every person. Energy will pass to him from them. If you need to speak with a vampire, it is better to cross your arms over your chest, put your feet together, thus "closing" your energy.
3. When you have to talk to a vampire every day, at work or at home, there is an effective way of self-defense when you can close yourself with an imaginary glass ball or dome from everyone around you. Thus, a person puts an invisible barrier that does not allow penetration into the source of his energy.
In order to prevent the vampire from taking energy, it is worth using one very in a good way. To do this, when a person constantly complains about your life, you need to quickly interrupt his pitiful topic with a phrase like: “Listen, such a story happened to me here! Let me tell you…” And after that, do not let him come to his senses - come up with stories right off the bat, whether you invent them or whether they happened in reality. The fact is that any person can be confused by suddenly taking the initiative to talk with him in his own hands, thereby distracting both himself and him from life's troubles.
Also, no energy vampire will listen to other people's problems. It is precisely the creation of problems that is his immediate goal, the result of which will be the “sucking out” of his vital energy. Such a person simply will not listen to the interlocutor if he talks about his life troubles.
Another way to get rid of the influence of an energy vampire may seem simple and funny. This is the so-called "grandmother's way". It consists in the fact that when communicating with a vampire, you need to hide an ordinary fig in your pocket or behind your back. Although this is an absurd option, it is always effective. We also have a huge number of energy channels in our hands, and when we fold our fingers in a certain way, a protective layer is formed - a biofield, and the body returns to its normal state. In the East, there is a whole system of treatment, which is built on "mudras", which implies various combinations of the location of the fingers. The way to show the muzzle is very similar to this treatment. In general, in many religions, the resort to symbols associated with specifically located fingers is described.
When you have already opened all your "protection systems" and there is no longer any strength to escape from it, you should turn to the use of amulets. Amulets are energy outlets that allow you not to waste energy on a particular person.
After the influence of the energy vampire on you, you should return your energy back as soon as possible. Taking a contrast shower, a little hot, will help in this. herbal tea, some spicy dish containing pepper, horseradish or mustard and a short walk in the fresh air in the park. Fresh air very useful in any condition. Adding a positive to yourself is sometimes simply necessary to maintain internal vitality.
Of course, when a person close to you constantly complains, you want to help him overcome all the troubles, but the energy vampire does not need help, he does not escape from problems in this way - he needs vitality. And you spend them trying to help, not realizing that it can be called help with great difficulty. That is, you are, as it were, pushing energy vampires to the idea that you can own problems and not at all to decide when another person can decide for them. That is, you spend the forces, giving them voluntarily and not demanding anything for it. It is for this reason that it is worth limiting your communication with such people and communication with them of your family. The family is easily influenced by energy vampires. Sometimes this is cruel, but the only way to encourage the "energy suckers" to move forward, and not to spend their energy on solving their problems, which is so necessary for them and you do not need at all.
It should be remembered that anyone can become an energy vampire, regardless of age or life status. Therefore, you should never be guided by negative emotions, getting upset about every occasion or because of some problems in life, because it is they that lead to energy vampirism, or rather, your perception of life tasks, attaching too much importance to them. Try to always be in a joyful mood, do not pay attention to trifles, ignore rude and uncultured people. To preserve vitality, you need to walk in nature as often as possible, eat natural food, love others, listen to your favorite music. Only with the help of positive thoughts can one cope with any, even the most unsolvable problem. Thus, an impetus is given to further life development, to the ability to overcome troubles with a proudly raised head on one's own, without relying on anyone.
- this is the reason for the "cut off" of a person from cosmic energy and its source. On this moment life, he needs to “steal” energy from others in order to restore his own. It happens that he himself does not suspect about his illness. It is not uncommon for an energy vampire to “pump out” forces from some people and at the same time give them to others, which is why he does not even have time to use them.
Unfortunately, determine whether a vampire this person or not, impossible by any tests. Each person determines the energy vampire himself, without much help, relying only on his own intuition and knowledge, because you can defend yourself only by knowing who is in front of you.
The main thing in the concept of human life in society is the desire to turn everything that exists on the planet into useful things, that is, to make sure that everything is adapted for him. According to the idea of people, every thing should benefit his health and general emotional state.
This principle of the energy-informational approach was preached in the Ancient East. The philosophy of the East considered a person as an open biological energy-information system. This meant the ability to both give energy and receive it. When a person becomes cut off from the common universal source of energy, he tries with all his might to restore his constantly diminishing source of life at the expense of other people. And this struggle is most often absolutely unconscious.
A person begins to feel insecure and weak on a subconscious level, he needs energy. Any argument with insults only benefits the energy vampire, because, as a rule, he wins in it. This, in turn, further undermines his state of health and alienates him from the source of energy in the world.
Only by improving spiritually, one can not lose this invisible connection with the cosmos. Only the ability to take energy from the primary source provides an exit from the system of donors and vampires.
Constantly before us are things that are not subject to our understanding, those that are impossible to notice. There are many such phenomena in the world, and each of them psychologically affects the surrounding people. It happens that a person does not know how to behave and what to do in order not to be under the power of an energy vampire.
You need to learn to forgive. If a person is unable to cope with any bitter resentment for a very long time, he involuntarily becomes an energy vampire. The only way to deal with this is not to let resentment sink in, not to let it build up. It means learning to forgive. Christians celebrate a wonderful holiday - Forgiveness Sunday. Its usefulness is that if a person sincerely asks everyone for forgiveness, he subconsciously clears himself of negative emotions.
The disease is essentially a product of the thought of each individual separately. IN Chinese medicine there is a whole science that studies the influence of a mixture of emotional factors on the general state of human health. When these factors act for a sufficiently long time, they begin to provoke the occurrence of various diseases. So, for example, constant being in a state of anger has a bad effect on the liver, fright or joy without measure - on the heart, sadness and sadness - on the lungs, fear - on the kidneys. The fact is that being in a state of fear, anger, resentment or hatred, the body automatically begins to release harmful and toxic substances that disrupt metabolism.
Emotions of internal disorder and constant “whining” about the fact that everything is bad never pass without a trace. Everyone who constantly talks about misfortunes and illnesses will surely fall into the traps set by his psyche. And this is no coincidence, because mentally we always give rise to the emergence of this or that disease.
Psychological energy is constantly changing depending on the emotions of each individual separately. The manifestation of fear, anger, envy or anger constantly destroys the general emotional background of a person, affecting his everyday state and behavior. If you look at energy vampirism from the occult side, then this is nothing more than the behavior of absolutely dead people who came out of their grave to satisfy their needs for physical and psychological energy.
The amount of energy lost directly depends on the relationship with the vampire. How open and trusting they are. Conventionally, each vampire can be attributed to one of two groups: the "lunar" take away energy quietly, and the "solar" constantly rowdy, provoke quarrels and scandals. It is not difficult to guess that a person has become an energy vampire - he constantly annoys, complains about life, is not able to solve his own everyday problems. A sincere attempt to help such people usually turns to our detriment, in connection with which there is a drain of our own vitality. In any public place, they can "suck out" energy - in the housing department, at the post office, at the passport office, in a car service and similar social places.
When another feels good, the energy vampire feels very bad on its own. That is, with direct contact with him, he begins to recover, and you get sick, the consequences of which may be feelings of drowsiness, hyperexcitability, exacerbation of old diseases, mental instability.
One of the most effective methods to restore your vitality are considered: taking a contrast shower, hot healing tea or any liquid hot dish; a glass of herbal tea sometimes performs an invaluable function as an energy restorer. With a glass of boiling water, among other things, you can cheer yourself up, improve your mood and appetite, and remove headache. Very useful infusions of tea from yarrow, rhubarb, dye madder, plantain, cyanosis, horsetail, burdock, blueberries.
It is very important to conserve energy to constantly enjoy this world - the sun, birds, trees, flowers. Sometimes five minutes of conversation with an opponent is enough to spend a significant part of your energy. With constant communication and sympathy for such a person, everyone overspends their strength on him, in connection with which feelings of irritation, weakness and hostility come.
If the vampire is "sunny", he is constantly in a state of arousal, generally hyperactive and always sociable. Such people always provoke quarrels and scandals. That is, they cause anger in a person, he easily succumbs to it, and, without controlling it himself, gives up his energy. For example, the energy of life can be "sucked out" while in public transport or crowded places, just being rude to someone.
Lunar energy vampires are much harder to recognize. They quietly and modestly extract energy. They have a lot in their arsenal. cunning ways"sucking out" other people's vitality. They can talk to you about something really important and at the same time use you as a "donor" of energy. Such people are more likely to provoke a conflict and step aside to observe its development.
An energy vampire of any type constantly loads the opponent with his fictitious problems. They do not accept objections and disputes in response, considering your problems to be insignificant. Vampires constantly keep a closed posture, with their arms crossed over their chests or cunningly interlacing their fingers. Also, vampires usually wave their arms strongly, as if putting up an invisible barrier. True, sometimes such signs do not relate to vampirism, but are only a consequence of a bad mood.
In casual attire, every vampire usually prefers dark tones, but this is also optional. When such a person grows up, he begins to use the energy of the whole family, to set only his own conditions for each of its members. He gets used to this very quickly.
With energy vampirism, there is always envy. People of this mindset are selfish and don't care how they get the energy they need. Moreover, if you allow him his actions, he will enjoy life, and you will feel tired and dissatisfied, sometimes without even knowing the reasons for this.
It is not difficult to fight an energy vampire - the main thing is to detect it in time, to realize it. It is best to act by his own methods - to cross your fingers or arms, that is, to take a closing position, showing that you will not allow a vampire to you. The most important thing to always remember is that you should not go into conflict with the energy thief, because he needs a quarrel. Do not get annoyed, be rude to him, cry or talk very emotionally. The technique is perfect if you look at the so-called "third eye" - the distance between the eyebrows and above during a conversation with a vampire.
It happens that an energy vampire unconsciously “sucks out” energy, and you fall under its influence only by chance, with an open heart wanting to help him. But such help, most likely, will benefit only him. Usually vampires do not even thank their "donor" of life energy. The most difficult thing is to deal with a vampire when he is one of the family members. Such a person is very dear and it is incredibly difficult to renounce him. To help him, there is only one sure way - do not let him complain and explain that you understand him perfectly, love, care, but let him raise his head and deal with the problem himself. Moreover, most likely, it is insignificant and your relative simply puts pressure on pity, being unable to solve a difficult task on his own. The phrase: "I love and respect you, but let's solve your problems yourself!" quite suitable for such cases.
It is a completely different matter when there is no way to calculate the energy vampire. He can constantly be with you at work, on the street, in a store or restaurant, stealing energy imperceptibly or even unconsciously. Finding such a person is usually not possible. It remains only to restore their strength on their own.
In order for no one to use your life energy for their own nourishment, you should enjoy every day you live, with positive thoughts wake up, go to bed, respect your colleagues, relatives, friends, meet each of your acquaintances with an open smile. It should be remembered that each of us can become an energy vampire, sometimes without even noticing it...
Have you ever met a person who would regularly hurt you, try to humiliate you or prove that you are worthless, you don’t know anything, you can’t, etc.? Remember what emotions you experienced for him at the time of the attacks? And how do you think the person himself felt, seeing that his “attacks” ended successfully? If you have not experienced this, you can only be glad for you, but most, having carefully delved into their memory, will probably remember several similar personalities. And someone will even find such an individual in their environment now.
It is noteworthy that, having caused irritation or despondency in the form of sufficiently strong emotions in the object of attacks, these people experience satisfaction and an uplift in mood, although outwardly this may not be so obvious. They seem to be “satiated” for a while leaving the “victim” until the next time. Have you never encountered something like this before? Maybe they were watching from the side? Or ... you yourself are not averse to doing this and is this a common thing for you? In fact, to some extent similar phenomena quite common in today's society.
If you carefully consider the phenomenon described above, associations suggest themselves. The aggressor behaves like a vampire, only from his victim he “drinks” not blood, but emotions. Therefore, without the slightest touch of mysticism, it is most reasonable to call such a person a vampire - this is the most appropriate term, if we call a spade a spade. Only not an ordinary vampire, no one drinks blood from the body, but an energy vampire. It would be clearer to use the term “emotional vampire”, but the phrase “energy vampire” has already taken root, and having understood more deeply the essence of such a phenomenon as emotion, one can understand: emotion is the energy of life! And to emotion, oddly enough, applicable general principle saving the energy of the physical world: if it decreases in one place, it arrives in another: spoiling your mood, the vampire improved it for himself!
For a complete understanding, let's give a definition.
- this is the subject of communication, initially, consciously or unconsciously, openly or covertly provoking the other side of communication to negative emotions of a destructive nature in order to suppress and obtain moral satisfaction. Such relationships are common in an environment of communication with a social hierarchy: in a work team, among students and pupils, even in a family.
How to recognize?
- The main feature of the energy vampire is the desire to evoke negative emotions and receive satisfaction from this. This property is common to all of them, but manifests itself in different ways, depending on the temperament and "malice" of the vampire.
- Aggressive energy vampires provoke scandals, insult, sometimes shout, criticize, humiliate and enjoy it. They are easy enough to identify, and they are not particularly masked. It is important to understand this nuance: if a person has quarreled or is in conflict with someone, this does not mean that now he is a vampire . Perhaps he is defending his rights, trying to prove something, albeit at the cost of nerves. But there is no joy in that for him. A real "bloodsucker" likes to make scandals, he likes to keep someone in a nervous tension and likes to suppress. He has such a "lifestyle".
- "Hidden" energy vampires not as obvious as aggressive ones, but much more dangerous and meaner. When a person lacks personal energy, and for some reason there is no opportunity to openly suck it out, as aggressive people do, he begins to act covertly. He can constantly complain about life and harass the "donor" with his whims. Gossip - another favorite tool of such a person - they love to savor the "spicy details" of someone else's life and slander others. The hidden vampire rarely says nasty things to his face. He will “secretly open his eyes” to your friends, “smear” them with a tub of mud, tell you how badly they “really” treat you. And then something similar will tell them about you. Like the aggressive ones, the hidden ones adore different kind conflicts and scandals. However, they prefer to stay on the sidelines, pitting others against each other, and then observing and gloating in their souls in order to stealthily, covertly feed on the emission negative energy. They love to find fault and cling to children, tormenting them with nitpicking and teachings.
- Surrounded by energy vampires, equipment often breaks down, things become unusable and quickly wear out, plants and animals get sick and even die. There is no mysticism here, but the thing is that these people have a destructive nature. They rarely keep the house and things in order, usually they are incredibly careless with equipment, they don’t finish the job to the end. And vampires treat animals and plants no better than humans.
- Relatives and relatives of the energy vampire, especially children, who are forced to constantly communicate with him, are unfortunate, unfortunate, weak people.
- Energy vampires themselves are unhappy, not self-sufficient creatures who do not know how to truly enjoy life. They are not happy with the success of others, they do not know how to empathize, no matter what they say about this.
An energy vampire does not always harm consciously, often considering his behavior to be the only normal and correct one, but this, of course, does not make it any easier for his victims.
There are circumstances, such as illness or accident, when an ordinary person begins to show the properties of a vampire: get annoyed, blame others from scratch, complain about life or otherwise “irritate” others, especially loved ones. This does not mean that the person has turned into an energy vampire. Just sometimes the energy ordinary person seriously suffers and there is a sharp shortage of it. In this case help a person, support him V Hard time. When the situation improves, he will return to normal. While for an energy vampire, vampirism is the norm and no support will fix the situation, it will only increase the appetite.
How to protect yourself?
Perhaps there is nothing so useless in the world as proving a vampire wrong. He himself must realize the full depth of his fall and begin conscious work on himself - then and only then will he have a chance to change his life for the better. Therefore, you should not correct the vampire, but defend yourself from him.
What is the protection against energy vampires?
The surest way to protect your own energy from being stolen is to reduce communication with negative personalities to a minimum. It's better not to talk at all.
However, such drastic measures will not always be applied. An energy vampire can be a wife or husband, mother-in-law or mother-in-law, a boss at work or one of your colleagues. Yes, and running away every time is not the best option. Alas, this is simply impossible - people with a chronic lack of energy are everywhere.
The first thing to do if you are sure that you are dealing with just such a person is to limit communication to the necessary minimum. In any case, you should not open your soul to him and share your innermost thoughts, but on the contrary, keep your true feelings as far away as possible.
Second, learn to control your emotions. Remember - the vampire needs to get a surge of negative emotions. Moreover, it will not work "to make a good face with a bad game." If the attacks hit a nerve, it's not enough to pretend you don't care. For him, it’s even better if you endure the victim and endure everything stoically. You need to learn to control your emotions, to become tougher on yourself. Do not allow yourself to be drawn into conflicts, be able to right place joke and laugh. The vampire hates positive emotions, he needs negative ones. After making sure that you don’t drop “blood”, he will eventually fall behind and switch to more accessible victims. Perhaps from time to time attempts will be made to suck on your energy, but if you continue to draw your line, you will remain invulnerable.
Don't fall for the whining of hidden energy vampires. Their constant complaints, voiced insults and nit-picking take as much energy as an open conflict. Talk to them about neutral topics, and if it's appropriate, generally invite them to talk about something good from their lives. At the same time, look at the response: if you were going to borrow energy, such a proposal is unlikely to be met with enthusiasm. This method is not only excellent protection, but also a good diagnostic method.
Don't trust people who criticize everyone behind their backs. It is unlikely that they speak better about you when you do not hear.
How to become an energy vampire?
Oddly enough, some people ask this question too. No romance here, alas, no. Life is not a fantasy film fiction. There is nothing good in the described state, and first of all - for the person himself.
But explaining how energy vampires actually become is not difficult at all. The method is simple:
- Get angry at the bottom of your heart the world and for all people without exception. Even for loved ones. And then realize that you are the only one who is truly important to you personally (just don't talk too much about this discovery).
- It would be nice to dodge like that in order to get some kind of chronic sore, or rather several at once, which would torment and haunt. This is not a prerequisite, but it helps a lot in enhancing vampire skills. You can exchange physical sores for serious psychological injuries.
- Get in the habit of annoying others or someone in particular. Perhaps make you fear, hate. And you can evoke pity by flaunting the sores obtained in paragraph 2. It doesn't matter.
- And now the most important thing! You should learn to enjoy when others feel bad. Feel it. Annoy people, oppress, suppress and feel satisfied. You can monotonously harass, if possible. In any way, think, fantasy will tell you ... First, try to find weak man, which is easy to poison or torment. Then one or two more. In the end, you will become a seasoned vampire! Just try to avoid strong people who can give a serious rebuff. Look around, you will surely find the "weak link".
Actually, that's all. The rest will follow by itself. Have you changed your mind yet? Then go ahead and with a song! Just don't be surprised that you become a truly unhappy person with perverted morals, poor health, whom no one really likes and everyone tries to avoid as much as possible.
I am an energy vampire, what should I do?
If you understand that all of the above describes you to a greater or lesser extent and decide to change, then consider that the first step has already been taken.
A change of scenery would be helpful. If possible, change your place of residence, work. At least make repairs in the house, change the wallpaper, furnishings, update your personal wardrobe.
Find an outlet, some hobby, something you enjoy doing.
Work on strengthening your own energy. Master meditation, yoga will be useful for you, relaxing and breathing exercises. If you don't like yoga and your health allows, go in for sports. Swimming is great. At least start running in the morning.
Don't set big goals right away. Start small and gradually you will feel that harassing and suppressing (whatever you call it before) has become completely uninteresting, instead completely different priorities have appeared.
Many have heard about energy vampires, but not everyone knows what kind of creatures they are. So, energy vampires, energy vampirism, let's see what it is.
Vladimir Alferov says: “In Lately my wife began to come home from work tired, angry and irritated. She took it out on me, on the kids, for no apparent reason. One got the impression that she herself was dissatisfied with such behavior, regretted the scandals that she herself provoked, but she could not do anything. One evening I came back with a friend with whom I worked together. I noticed that the emotional state of a friend was just as uneven. The question arose by itself, is everything in order in their office, and has a new employee appeared in this friendly team lately? It turned out there was. Or rather, it appeared. Anna Sergeevna, middle-aged woman, smiling and good-natured, process engineer for polymeric materials. In just a couple of days, she got acquainted with the whole team, made the most favorable impression on her colleagues. I asked my friends how long she worked at the former enterprise? It turned out that only six months, and before that even less - four months. My assumptions were justified, among the employees of the company where my wife worked, a pronounced energy vampire appeared.
What is an energy vampire?
It is probably more appropriate to ask the question: “Who are energy vampires?”
However, vampires are the dead, and from the category of animate beings they pass into a different quality.
The corpse is not who, but what? Therefore, such a definition is acceptable to energy vampires.
Kidding! These people are alive, and many are not bad, just darlings!
An energy vampire is a person who is not able to maintain his internal energy at the proper level.
Such individuals spend energy unreasonably, beyond measure, without thinking about the consequences.
Energy vampires and energy donors
But if there are energy vampires who suck energy, then there are energy donors who give it away.
Energy withdrawal is an unpleasant operation for the donor. Although people who are spiritually, mentally and emotionally developed have a sufficient supply of internal energy.
By and large, energy vampires are not very scary to them. Their energy balance constantly maintained at sufficient high level and is constantly replenished.
Yes, they, without knowing it, give their energy to energy monsters, but, as a rule, they do not notice this.
In a completely different way, the withdrawal of energy affects an ordinary, ordinary person, who already has a deficit of it. The consequences of third-party interference in this case are tangible, and can become dangerous, especially if he has one of his relatives, relatives, work colleagues in his energy life-suckers. Those with whom he contacts regularly.
Types of Energy Vampires
Energy ghouls come in two varieties or types
The first kind is unconscious. These werewolves have no idea who they really are. The fact that they feed on the energy of others, vampires do not realize. They do not wish harm to their donor; in life they are often good-natured and nice people. They turn into energy leeches in critical life situations.
Although citizens who are not protected from their vampiric essence, this does not make it any easier.
What do you care about the fact that the executioner before the execution gives you a cigarette and smiles sweetly at the same time.
The second type - conscious live-throats. These are dangerous creatures. They are devoid of compassion, unencumbered by ethical obligations, do not know pity, do not know compassion for their victims. They commit a crime consciously and are able to easily bring a person to nervous breakdown, mental illness, and even from nervous exhaustion. The trouble is if you accidentally connected your life with such a creature. Their only goal is to get energy from you at any cost. What then becomes of the test subject, they are not interested.
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What does an energy vampire look like?
They do not have pronounced external signs: no blood dripping from the fangs, the skin is of a normal color, not the pale gray of the classic ghouls.
They cannot fly, move at the speed of a bullet, have no supernatural strength, and do not live forever.
However, representatives of this breed have their own distinctive features and patterns of behavior by which they can be recognized.
How to recognize an energy vampire
Do not be upset and scared if you notice one sign from the list below in someone you know. But if there is a match on three or more points, be on your guard.
- Energy Vampires Seek Compassion
Do you know what a favorite quote from classical literature these people have: "We are responsible for those we have tamed."
Antoine de Saint-Exupery, without knowing it, gave a powerful ideological weapon into the hands of the energy evil spirits.
This trap is very easy to fall into. You need to do good anonymously, and if you help someone specifically, do not let him sit on your head in the future. People revel in their nobility after an accomplished act of mercy, and werewolves take advantage of this. His persistence is becoming more and more dangerous, and getting rid of this obsessive character in the future will be, oh, how difficult.
2. Energy vampires always blame others for all their troubles.
The picture of the world of ghouls is such that their poor, naive, defenseless and kind people are surrounded by people who are completely envious, cruel, greedy, in which all vices are concentrated. The boss is a fool, a tyrant and a tyrant, a wife is a grumpy cunning rubbish, a husband is a useless stupid loser, children are ungrateful offspring, neighbors are an annoying public, colleagues are envious swindlers. You can easily fall into the category of these enemies: an awkward remark, disagreement about something, a laudatory review about any other person. This type is well noticed by N.V. Gogol, remember Sobakevich from Dead Souls.
3. Energy vampires are clever provocateurs
Eating energy is not necessary, causing self-pity. Negative emotions are just as bad. Swearing, quarrel, fight - this is the element of energy rubbish. To provoke such a situation for evil spirits is elementary. Where they are, there will always be a tense situation, and in the company, and even with alcohol, a quarrel will definitely flare up. Well, if everything is limited to drunken fuss in the stalls, often such incidents end up in the morgue for one and in the zone for another. Have you heard of domestic crime?
It is in the kitchens, and not on the dark night streets, that the greatest number of serious crimes, including murders, is committed. Think about it.
4. Energy vampires are not only provocateurs, but also intriguers
Quarrels do not arise from scratch, first you need to prepare the ground. This is where energy spiders are real masters. Their main and deadly weapon is gossip. You can spin any nonsense about a person that no one will ever believe, but the sediment will remain. Like in a joke about silver spoons. This method is well mastered by propagandists of various stripes. Announce on TV that this comrade drinks the blood of babies in the morning, and then let him justify himself all his life. And if it is justified, it means that there was something after all.
5. Energy vampires are very insidious.
They can deceive, betray, substitute at any moment. For a ghoul, this is all very natural. They do not feel any regret or remorse, because morality is an empty phrase for them. As long as a person lives, there is such a phenomenon as betrayal. Just remember Judas Iscariot, who betrayed Jesus for thirty pieces of silver.
By the way, Judas was not an energy vampire. Then he repented, returned the money, and hung himself on an aspen. That is why, in order to kill a vampire, he needs to drive an aspen stake into his heart.
6. Energy vampires tend to be extreme.
Sometimes their whole life resembles a permanent extreme. This is one of the indirect signs by which ghouls can be calculated. But there is no need to go to extremes and enroll all extreme people into werewolves. This sign works only in combination with others. Most extreme people are brave, desperate people and I personally like them. Vampires manifest themselves to an extreme extent in everyday life: after a minor quarrel, they can break established ties with friends and relatives. Get married or get married a week after they met. Their own emotions are not enough for them, so they need recharge. If you stay at arm's length from these people, you will not lose.
Signs of energy vampirism
The main feature is the internal state of a person before and after communication. If suddenly after meeting and talking with a person you feel bad for no reason, there is reason to think.
By "bad", here we mean: discomfort, dejection, fatigue, a feeling of emptiness, anxiety, unconscious fear.
Of course, this may be a coincidence, but if you experienced the same sensations the next time after communicating with the same person, be sure that you have an energy vampire in front of you. Break up with him forever, he is a threat to your mental health!
Let's look at all kinds of violations and deviations that occur after such contacts.
Vampire people: physiological signs
- High blood pressure
- Headache
- Heartache
- Cardiopalmus
- Loss of appetite
- Difficulty breathing
- General malaise
Vampire people: psychological signs
- Reduced performance
- Constant fatigue
- Bad mood
Vampire People: Energy Signs
- Anxiety
- Guilt
- Feeling of fear
- Negative perception of reality
- Decreased self-esteem
How does an energy vampire behave?
If you have a suspicion that one of your relatives or acquaintances is an energy vampire, you should carefully look at his behavior. Sometimes it gives out a werewolf with a head.
Here are the characteristic algorithms of the behavior of energy ghouls
But they are easy to recognize in the crowd, as a rule, mass actions are recorded on cameras, so they behave there with caution.
Energy vampirism at a distance
Recently, energy vampirism has been widespread at a distance.
Today, these live-eaters love discussions in chat rooms and social networks. This is where they develop extraordinary activity.
Everyone who has ever entered into discussions on the Internet knows that there are such ghouls on every site.
Energy vampire at work
We spend most of our lives at work. Therefore, the atmosphere in the team is the key to your mental health. Yes, and just health, too, because all diseases are from nerves.
It's a disaster if an energy vampire appears here. And he shows up most of the time.
This werewolf can cause a permanent depressed state, a bad mood.
In his company, you will feel tired, headache, you will not be able to work as you should.
Hence the dissatisfaction with you as a specialist on the part of the authorities, undermining your reputation.
In addition, the vampire in the team, be sure, will quarrel everyone with everyone.
The situation can become more complicated if your boss acts as an energy Dracula.
The boss is an energy vampire
With your colleague, acquaintance, and even close friend, if you wish, you can stop communicating, you won’t be able to do this with your boss. If he is an energy ghoul, he will suck the energy out of you to the maximum.
- These monsters are able to turn your life into pitch darkness, loading it with fictitious problems, poisoning it with negative emotions, interfering without reason in personal space, surrounding it with speculation and gossip, infecting with nervousness.
- He will pump out energy from a position of strength, provoking a subordinate to negative emotions: annoyance at himself, insecurity, fear of failure, resentment, and so on.
- He will always be dissatisfied. Even if you receive a Nobel Prize for your work, he will congratulate you, spitting words through his teeth. And if you let the jamb -! The mistake will never be forgotten!
- It’s more expensive to quarrel with him, but it’s also a shame to quit your favorite job because of an energy bloodsucker. So you have to defend yourself! How? More on that later.
In the meantime, you need to make sure that your boss is actually an energy vampire. These creatures are sometimes completely unfairly mistaken for demanding, harsh bosses, but rooting for their work. Take a look, maybe he's one of those. If the truth is on your side, then read on.
Colleague is an energy vampire
The situation is unpleasant, but not critical, after all, not the boss. With a colleague you are in the same weight category, so you can fight back.
But first, again, take a closer look at it. Maybe he just has such a character, and he is not a vampire at all.
In this case, other methods are needed to communicate with him.
Well, what if… Then he will regularly evoke negative emotions in you, create discomfort.
Swearing with energy ghouls is more expensive for yourself Distract every now and then from work with unnecessary chatter, invite them to smoke, drink, stuff themselves into friends, girlfriends.
Entangled in a web of gossip, stupid conversations, complaints and petty quarrels.
Subordinate - Energy Vampire
This one is more dangerous than a colleague. He can always write a slander on you, say that you are holding back the initiative of your subordinates, do not allow them to make serious decisions and dream of only one thing, how to sit your boss and take his place.
Then you get tired of making excuses.
In addition, the person who makes excuses is always under suspicion.
But you can’t swallow a blatant lie either. What a disaster!
A subordinate vampire will always emphasize his subordinate position in an attempt to make you feel guilty.
He will not let you work in peace, will start knocking on colleagues, complaining about unsuitable living conditions, bright light, lack of light, heat, cold, and so on.
God forbid, if he breaks out into the public. Will overwhelm you with requests, suggestions, stupid ideas and undertakings.
In this case, it will become even more difficult to brush it off.
How to protect yourself from an energy vampire at work
It is impossible to insure at work from the negative influence of your colleagues, boss, subordinates. Either quit (the new place will be the same) or defend yourself. Here are some tricks.
1. Always change the subject
Don't feed energy monsters with bread - just let them argue with someone. If you notice that you have been drawn into a discussion of some issue, the behavior of a colleague, a political argument, or a meaningless discussion on another topic, do not get excited. If you notice excessive nervousness behind you, immediately change the subject, move away from the conversation. Hook on a word, move on to another topic of discussion, make an unusual comment that is not related to the topic. A vampire, having tuned in to take a sip of energy for a freebie, will get a bummer. They don't like it and will leave you behind. There are many victims around.
2. Having a sense of humor
This is the most effective and efficient way to ward off the energy spider. Take every situation with humor. React to any provocation from the side cheerfully, naturally and, again, with humor.
Joke, irony, paradox, jokes and ridicule - what vampires cannot stand, what they run from and what they are afraid of. It's like an aspen stake and a silver bullet for real vampires. Rudeness, hysteria, insults will not bring harm to the energy monster, a witty word can, if not kill him, then cripple him mentally. So put a smile on your face, and no enemy is afraid of you. A normal people you will be loved even more for it.
3. Do not make it clear that you are offended or hurt to the quick
This tip is especially helpful if Dracula is your boss. As soon as he notices that he hit the mark, he will get even more excited. Be calm as under the influence of seduxen. Sometimes it’s not easy to do this, especially when you get a scolding that’s not the case, but the boss knows that he’s picking on unfairly. It is not the truth that matters to him, but your uncontrollable emotions. You should not complain to colleagues after such scandals, he will find out. Leave the office with an expression of complete indifference. It is even better to cultivate this feeling, popularly called pohuism, in oneself. Oh, how useful in life.
4. Do not argue in any way
Object to the case, yes, you can and should. But as soon as you notice that reasonable arguments do not work on the interlocutor, leave any dispute. As in the case of the boss, it is not the truth that is important to your opponent, but it is important to piss you off. It is not necessary to turn around and defiantly leave, showing disrespect to the interlocutor. Listen to him, nod your head, agree. Very soon, the lack of a negative reaction on your part will bother him, and he will end the dispute himself.
5. Keep your distance
Escape is far from the best bad way protection. Sometimes the smartest. Your powers are not comparable to those of energy monsters, you shouldn't even compete with them. In direct confrontation, you will always be defeated. We have to act smart.
6. Increase the distance between you
Don't let him turn you into a pillow he can cry into. Don't be frank with him. Do not invite guests, do not sit at the same dining table. Be extremely polite and extremely correct, at the same time, do not let the relationship go beyond the working ones.
7. Do not give in to provocations
Provocations are a favorite way of an energy predator to piss off an interlocutor. This means that provocations must be able to track and not succumb to them. If you see that your colleague is ready to "explode", find an excuse to leave the room, do not let him talk to you. Simulate a phone call, an urgent business call, and so on. Don't be alone with a vampire colleague. These monsters have a huge arsenal of provocations, it is impossible to list them all. Be carefull!
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Energy vampire by date of birth
Numerology is an interesting, ambiguous science, and the attitude towards it is different: from complete delight to squeamish rejection.
Researchers who study such a phenomenon as energy vampirism claim that an energy monster can be calculated by date of birth.
This procedure is very easy and can be done by anyone who knows the simplest arithmetic operation - addition.
Sometimes it is really difficult to determine whether a person is an energy vampire or just has a capricious character.
Some suspect themselves of vampirism, sometimes quite rightly. In order to dot all Yo, we propose to pass the following test.
From it you will find out which of your relatives, friends, colleagues are involved in vampirism, and who, without knowing it, gives their energy to these living dead.
With the help of the test, you can also determine which of the five types you belong to.
Let's list them:
- Energy vampires
- Donors (victims)
- Neutral personalities
- white magicians
- black magicians
Here is how these five types are distributed:
The graph shows how many representatives of each type are among all people in percentage (on average)
For testing, you will need a pen and a piece of paper. So, we write the date of birth in full, for example: 19.05. 1988.
Then we add these numbers (1+9+0+5+1+9+8+8) = 41.
But we need one digit, so we add again (4 + 1) = 5.
Remember this last figure, it will become your beacon.
Let's test the result.
If, after passing the test, the final figure is one or two, this means that the subject is an energy vampire.
It is possible that unconsciously, but he takes energy from others, using it for his own good.
If the amount was expressed in these figures, then the tested person is a donor. In life, he should be extremely careful.
Such people are susceptible negative influence by the vampires. It is most reliable to have a talisman with you, which will protect him from the influence of dark forces and help repel the attack of the energy spider.
These numbers are harbingers good news. If you get one of them, you are not able to take someone else's energy, but the insatiable werewolves will not receive it from you either. People who have these numbers in their assets are completely neutral and have remarkably powerful energy that creates an impenetrable barrier around them.
If you rolled a nine at the end of the test, congratulations! You are not an energy vampire, but you play for another major league. In conventional terminology, you are a white magician. These are people with positive energy and a huge supply of energy, which they easily control. From birth, these characters have a huge potential, do not oversleep it.
A very difficult number. Those born under the sign of the four in the same terminology are black magicians. These people are able to move from one state to another due to a gigantic supply of vitality. They can be neutral personalities, or they can go into the category of energy vampires. People are complex, ambiguous. From them, in certain life situations, a leader can grow up who can captivate peoples with his ideas, or an insatiable tyrant can turn out.
Successful and unsuccessful marriages
Energy vampire + white mage
The perfect union. The energy balance makes it ideal. The white magician can sometimes be weighed down by a huge amount of positive energy, which a vampire can safely take from him.
Black magician + white magician
The option is similar to the previous one and also very successful for the same reasons.
Donor + energy vampire
Oddly enough, but this union is often also long and happy. Yes, a vampire takes energy from a donor, that's a fact. But if the latter lives a busy life, does what he loves, sports, practices active recreation, then he may have an overabundance of energy. And giving it voluntarily to your loved one, both remain the winners.
Neutral + white mage
The combination is quite harmonious. Although love is in second place in this tandem, business relationships and friendship are in the first place, which is sometimes more important than crazy love and crazy passion. Both things pass, leaving emptiness and disappointment.
Donor + white magician
In marriage, as a rule, both are happy. The exchange of energy takes place by mutual agreement, without coercion of any of the partners. If the donor has a lack of vitality, he may well recharge from the white magician. No need to smile, of course, he will not connect it to the outlet, and he will not connect to it himself. Everything happens unconsciously at a subtle level.
Donor + neutral person
Too enough strong alliance. Neutral is able to protect from the negative impact of his partner. In this case, both will be quite reliably protected from the influence of extraneous negative forces.
Vampire + black magician
A very successful tandem. An energy vampire in this alliance will not have to suffer from a lack of energy. The black magician easily manages energy flows and able to point them in the right direction.
Energy Vampire + Neutral
Here it can turn as in positive side, and vice versa. Marriage is a compromise. If the vampire can curb his energy hunger and stop taking energy from his partner, then life will improve. If not, scandals, mutual reproaches are inevitable, as a result - a divorce and a maiden name.
Black Mage + Neutral
The relationship algorithm is exactly the same as that of an energy vampire and a neutral. Black magician in the name of love and peace family life must “step on the throat of his song”, stop tyrannizing a partner. Very often a woman acts as a tyrant.
vampire + vampire
Dissonance is already in the very name of this tandem. Life won't work. Both will be bent from a lack of energy. This, of course, is a figure of speech, but in everyday life - quarrels, reproaches, discontent. Divorce is inevitable.
Energy vampire + black magician
Explosive combination. The situation is even more tense than between two vampires. Both need a large amount of energy, which they will try to get from a loved one. Hence - outbreaks of aggression, which in everyday life can end in a crime.
Protection from energy vampires
One hundred percent, everyone has encountered an energy vampire at least once in their life.
And, for sure, you have a friend, after talking with whom, you feel at ease: a breakdown, disappears good mood, the world is painted in shades of gray.
This is because your interlocutor recharged with positive energy from you.
The more vulnerable the victim, the bolder the ghoul acts, the more he can devastate it.
There are many ways to protect yourself from vampire people. Type in search engine How to protect yourself from an energy vampire and advice will fall out on a hundred pages.
I do not undertake to analyze which of them are effective, and which are complete bullshit.
Here we will look at the most popular and proven positive.
Everything ingenious is simple, and following the teachings of the English monk-philosopher William of Ockham, we will not multiply things. To put it simply, there is no need to look for complex solutions if there are simple ones.
The easiest and most effective way to deal with these energy monsters is not to allow yourself to be provoked.
The vampire has no weapons against this technique.
- Be polite
- Calm
- Don't get into a pointless argument
- Don't let the negativity overwhelm you.
Believe me, the Crookshanks will lose all interest in you. It also makes no sense for a vampire to achieve a result. difficult way, he will find the victim more accommodating.
If your nerves are not so strong, and you still risk breaking loose, then experts recommend the following defense techniques.
Ethereal double
A very effective technique used by many psychics.
Upon contact with the energy spider, mentally collect your energy in the solar plexus area. Sounds tricky, but it's really not that hard. Just imagine it. Do not think right or wrong you do, everything will be fine.
Again, mentally redirect the energy into your head. Concentrate your attention on the area between the eyebrows, there is the so-called third eye.
Then send a mental signal to your energy enemy. It can sound differently: “I am protected”, “I am invisible to you”, “I am a threat to you”, “I am not available to you”. Choose the form of the message yourself, I hope you understand the idea.
The next technique is jokingly called "I'm in a tank" or "I'm in a cocoon."
Imagine that you are enclosed in an impenetrable glass ball. Everything that is directed in your direction is broken about it: bad thoughts, negative emotions, anger, jealousy and so on.
The ball can also be a mirror, then the negative will come back.
Mentally, this ball must be imagined if you are in contact with people in whom you suspect energy vampires or simply with unpleasant characters.
For prevention, the ball can be projected outside, being in a crowded place.
Protection with a folk remedy
The new is the well-forgotten old. Protection against energy vampires existed before. Here is one of the techniques used by our ancestors.
salt protection
- Prepare a packet of coarse salt
- Heat up a cast iron skillet
- Pour the salt into the pan
- Holding the pan in front of you, read "Our Father" three times.
How to restore lost energy
Protection is good, but vampires are treacherous and one hundred percent difficult to defend against.
If, after an unpleasant conversation or other contact with a person, you experience malaise, loss of vitality and other manifestations energy vampirism, then using these techniques, you can recover.
Good Cosmos
Get comfortable in your chair.
Hands on your knees, palms up.
Concentrate and mentally ask the Cosmos to return vital energy to the body.
Imagine a beam of light that enters your body through the crown of your head. Choose the color of the beam yourself, which one you like best.
For the greatest effect, the exercise should be done once a week. You will feel much better.
The exercise is simple but effective.
Make a ring out of a large and index finger left hand.
The same is from the thumb and forefinger of the right hand.
Enclose one ring within the other like chain links.
Do these manipulations several times (from three to seven).
Many people experience slight dizziness during the exercise, this good sign. So the energy comes back to you.
The same easy exercise and no less useful.
Left hand with open palm - up.
Right - clench into a fist.
Then change hands: right hand with open palm - up,
left - in a fist.
Touch your palm three times with your fist.
Repeat several times (From two to five).
Exercise helps restore energy.
Cleansing shower
Water takes away negativity, cleanses the soul and body. Therefore, after contact with an energy vampire or just with an unpleasant person, it is recommended to take a shower. Yes, that's it, it's simple. Without any manipulation.
How to get rid of an energy vampire
7 tips to get rid of an energy vampire
You won’t be able to get rid of them all forever, these personalities will definitely appear in your life regularly, like flies on a rat’s corpse near the garbage heap. It is possible to isolate oneself from some of the most dangerous ones, as well as to minimize the harm from energy bloodsuckers.
1. Flies separately, bloodsuckers separately
To begin with, let's look around and find these predators. How to do this, we already wrote above. Let's repeat something. Energy vampires are selfish, manipulative, people are extremely difficult to communicate with. It is not easy to work next to them, to please, even if you sincerely want it, is hard. If you feel that when you contact this person, you lose more than you gain, it's time to break up with him. Tear without regret, ignoring reproaches from his side. Otherwise, this character will turn your life into hell.
2. Be firm
The energy werewolf must be countered with endurance, strength and firmness of character. If you just send them through the forest, nothing will come of it. They react to soft power in exactly the opposite way. They can cling even tighter to you. Be consistent. Let the person know that you no longer need his company, and this is not a momentary whim, not a whim, but a deliberate decision.
3. Put up red flags
Set clear boundaries. They are needed so that the vampire cannot get into your soul, observe your weaknesses and insecurities from the outside. Minimize verbal contact or stop altogether if possible. Delete his number from the phone, all accounts in social networks. , send them to the trash without opening. Don't break these rules.
4. Kindness is worse than theft
Everything is good in moderation. Being infinitely kind is also not very right. Sometimes kindness corrupts. As for energy vampires, they feed on this feeling, savor it, like a gourmet cutlet in Kiev. Thanks to her, they live and prosper. I am not calling for you to instantly become a boor and a rude person, but you should not remain a mumbler either.
5. Rescue of the drowning...
Remember, yes? The work of the drowning themselves. This applies to ghouls in the first place. As soon as you gave them a helping hand and pulled them out of another life trouble, be sure that they will turn to you regularly with a plea for help. These people always need something, in their life there is a constant crisis in relations with someone. You will save them, they will feed on your energy. Let them extricate themselves from situations that they themselves create.
6. Dead means dead
These scoundrels will return to your life again and again, as long as you do not put an iron barrier in front of them.
After saying goodbye to them, explain that it is goodbye. The situation becomes more complicated if the vampire is a member of your family. Leave your native land as soon as you can. Of course, it’s not worth interrupting forever contacts with loved ones, but you can minimize it.
7. Love is gone, withered tomatoes
If the energy vampire - close person, beloved, then before you leave and break off relations, you should think and weigh a hundred times. Read previous section about successful and unsuccessful alliances. The situation can always be corrected, because marriage is a compromise. But already if life has become unbearable, and there is no gap - tear it alive.
Children are energy vampires
In relation to children, it is better to use the term "energy dependent". They all, without exception, pump out energy from loved ones unconsciously. But first, a few excerpts from letters.
“My grandson, Yegor, is five years old. A good, obedient and cheerful boy. Parents at my request often leave it with me for the weekend. We walk, read books, watch movies. I am a young grandmother, far from retirement, and I still have a lot of strength. But recently I began to notice that after the weekend with Yegor, I feel like a hundred-year-old old woman: my mood is at zero, I have no strength, the only desire is to get to bed and sleep! Recently, a headache has been added to the breakdown. If the matter is in the grandson, then for me it is a disaster, the collapse of life ... ".
“I am a single mother, I have a daughter and a son. Alice was born sick, and for the first six months we did not get out of the hospital. In the hospital, I also underwent treatment. It turned out that I had a whole bouquet diseases that I had never known before. Discharged, moved home. This is where the real nightmare began: Alice did not sleep, was capricious and cried for days. I didn't sleep with her. In addition, she could not get rid of the incessant headache. His head hurt so much that tears came out involuntarily. "Citramon", "Mig", "Spazmalgon" I drank in packs. In this nightmare, I barely survived a year. Then everything seemed to get better. I left my daughter in the care of my mother, while I myself got a job. And oh, miracle! My health has improved dramatically. At work, I fluttered like a butterfly, my head didn’t hurt, my mood was fine. But in the evening she came home, and the ailments returned. Just like me, my mother began to feel herself. It's all about the daughter, it became clear finally. But what to do, how to be? Trips to the doctors did not clear up anything. So we lived, getting sick alternately with my mother. Two years after Alice, I gave birth to Andrei. Now she is seven years old, he is five, but the problems have only worsened. My daughter hates my brother, as soon as I pay attention to him, a tantrum begins. And recently, she, looking angrily into my eyes, asked: “When will you finally die? I know it will be soon, but it would be faster!” I am confused and in a panic, I have no idea what to do. I'm afraid of my daughter!"
I do not undertake to make diagnoses by letter, and in general it is none of my business.
First of all, both grandmother and mother should seek the help of a psychiatrist.
But if this is a manifestation of energy dependence, then, you see, in a very strong form. The case when dependence is capable of close people.
The energy field of the child is formed in the family, from birth he is innocent and sterile. How fully the baby's needs for affection and love are satisfied depends on his emotional health.
Children's energy dependence is an unconscious phenomenon, reflecting the atmosphere in which a small person developed.
If a child is energetically dependent, then this is his problem, because along with the energy that he consumes, he absorbs negative energy and diseases from his donors. Therefore, the life of the baby also turns into a nightmare.
Love, affection and care of parents can save him from this. It's trite, but it's true!
The fate of your baby, his peace of mind and health is in your hands, parents.
Prayer from energy vampires
In the beginning was the word
I will not reveal a secret if I say that the words with which we think, write, and pronounce carry a powerful energy charge.
The word is a weapon, in terms of its impact comparable to the most destructive means of mass destruction.
After all, before launching, for example, a ballistic missile, a word command must be given, and before that, the thought of launching must form in the brain of a person endowed with such power.
But thought is formed exclusively verbally, that is, with the help of words.
We cannot think otherwise.
A thought that is not framed in words does not exist.
It is the conspiracy that can show its remarkable strength in the fight against energy vampires.
It is the words that these spiders are most afraid of.
Here is an example of one of the spells you can use.
“Lord Almighty, give me protection, give me protection from all sorts of troubles! Protect me from the vile vampire, my strength to steal the skillful, give me the strength to stand firm and give the vampire a blow! Amen".
Energy vampirism is a process of interaction in which one person improves his emotional and energy state at the expense of the resources of another. This process can take place both in a conscious form and be an unconscious way of energy replenishment. This method is the simplest in terms of the efforts made, but the most difficult in terms of further consequences.
Energy vampirism helps to replenish and balance the energy of the one who is nourished, but disturbs it in the donor. Over time, a person begins to notice a deterioration in well-being and a breakdown after interacting with a particular person. Many subconsciously calculate such vampires and do not even think about how to protect themselves from energy vampirism, they simply stop interacting. In the long term, this threatens the vampire with the loss of all social circles and forces them to seek other sources of energy.
Signs of energy vampirism
Behavior characterized as energy vampirism is common to all people. Even if it seems to you that you are constantly only being attacked, this does not exclude the fact that you yourself are also saturated with someone else's energy. The question remains in what doses this occurs and what each of the participants in the interaction receives. For example, all small children are energy vampires, this is necessary for their growth and development, and this is precisely what explains the severe fatigue of women when the child is small. Not by difficulties and lack of sleep, but by constant emotional return and the demand for attention around the clock. Therefore, very sick people and the elderly begin to vampirize those around them, since they need to expend huge energy resources to restore or maintain life. People in difficult emotional states begin to draw on the energy of others in order to even out their emotional background.
The eventual reasons for switching on the scenario of taking someone else's energy may be different, but the root cause lies in the imbalance of the energy content of people. It depends on the level of development of the individual, her spirituality and education, the ability to cope with life's difficulties and understand oneself. Those who have learned autonomous energy filling and understanding of the laws social interaction rarely lose energy and are attractive to others. But there are also those who do not seek to engage in their own development and, instead of creating a new and their own individual, prefer to take away what is available from others. How useful someone else's energy and thoughts will be remains an open question.
To understand whether your poor health is associated with energy vampirism or not, some factors that are noted both on the physical and psycho-emotional levels will help. TO physical features include heart problems, headaches, sleep problems, decreased appetite, and breathing difficulties. Among the psychological indicators of energy vampirism, the feeling of fatigue, decreased performance, and reduced response to external stimuli are in the first place. A hole at the energy level is characterized by a long-term loss of mood, a feeling of causelessness, shame, guilt, intensifying and. These are the main most common indicators that can appear both independently and in any combination. In addition, your individual reactions may occur, such as the appearance of allergic spots on the skin or uncontrolled seizures or.
A sign that you have an energy vampire in front of you is the desire of a person to get you out of emotional balance. No matter what methods the energy vampire uses, it is a mistake to assume that he will scream loudly or actively intimidate you. This template is indeed one of the signs of energy vampirism, and open.
But many energy vampires look pretty cute and quiet, while their victim can throw tantrums and throw dishes at the wall. Here it is important not to make a mistake and not to confuse, since the quiet vampire did everything to bring a person to an insane state and now he simply absorbs outbursts of someone else's energy. Accordingly, not everyone who screams is an energy absorber - follow the situation a little deeper and see who modeled this situation, and who eventually became morally better.
You can recognize an energy vampire by certain methods used, which will change each other at the beginning of communication in order to find the most effective way. These people often use criticism, hurtful words, reducing the merits of others or even depreciation. Such a manner of communication can hide behind care and a desire to help, but in the end it reduces a person, takes away the joy of achievements. Are used non-verbal manifestations provoking others: bright clothes, makeup, colors, behavior. Something that can hook the feelings of others - for example, such a person can come to church with bright gothic makeup and satanic symbols, or not shake hands when meeting. Any violation of social norms in a certain environment causes resentment, and the more valuable the external adherence to dogma, the more resentment will cause inappropriate behavior.
Behavioral patterns that violate your personal boundaries and standards of decency can be a signal of energy vampirism. So, a person who comes to visit without a call, lingers for a long time and does not understand the hints at the end of the conversation is not just tactless. While you listen to the second hour of your friend's complaints on the phone and are nervous because you can't do your own thing, she is feeding on your energy. Picking up the phone to the night calls of a hated acquaintance, you give him a piece of your energy, first with anxiety, then irritation, and then the suppression of emotions.
Minor annoying actions, for which it is not customary to scold, and openly express dissatisfaction are the weapons of quiet energy vampires. Swinging a leg, clapping a pen, champing at a table, tapping nails on a surface, constant loud music or walking on heels from neighbors are all excellent and unpunished ways of energy vampirism. They cause a lot of irritation, and the longer they are used, the stronger the reaction, while screaming and demanding from a person not to smack their lips at the table may look inadequate.
An energy vampire can choose the tactics of the victim and put pressure on pity - typical for sick, old people who are in or have an apathetic personality structure. For active manifested energy vampires, an active position is characteristic - domestic tyrants, business exploiters, moral or physical sadists. And then there are vampires, who are the most difficult to recognize, mainly because they are people from a close environment (friends, relatives, loved ones who use your location to solve their own difficulties).
Energy vampirism invariably affects the appearance of a person. Usually these are early wrinkles in the corners of the eyes and around the eyebrows. This comes from the fact that over time the face acquires the expression that a person most often takes. For energy vampires, the characteristic emotions are anger, discontent, sadness, which is manifested in appearance.
A constantly sad facial expression or a heavy look, which few people can withstand for a long time, indicates serious emotional problems, a difficult character, which is also a constant companion and tool of an energy vampire.
Protection against energy vampirism
There are as many methods of how to protect yourself from energy vampirism as its manifestations; to resolve the situation, it is necessary to analyze a specific case and choose the appropriate actions. But the first thing to learn is that a strong and harmonious person is unlikely to fall under the influence of an energy vampire, he will simply have nothing to grab onto. All energy absorption is built on finding your weaknesses, disharmony and buildup of an internal unstable state. If you are stable and holistic inside, confident in yourself and adequate in assessing reality, then it will not be easy to swing to an emotional outburst. Accordingly, in addition to protective measures, it is necessary to take preventive measures, which will consist in the study of one's own personality, psychotherapy of previously received injuries, living through difficult emotions, and strengthening personal boundaries.
Visualization techniques help a lot, where it is necessary to imagine a barrier between yourself and an energy vampire. It can be a shield, a cocoon, a waterfall, a fireball, mirrors - whatever yours likes more. For example, a mirror might return negative impacts, and fire damages an energy vampire when approached, a waterfall can purify, etc. You can experiment with your own perception of an energy vampire, usually its importance and significance are exaggerated due to the fact that a person experiences fear or guilt, but all this occurs precisely when an energy vampire is exposed. To reduce the importance of his personality, you can imagine a person naked, small, in a clown costume or other ridiculous situation. The point is that what makes us laugh can no longer scare us.
Prayers and mantras are great for believers. Breathing techniques and monotonous repetition of something or listening to music are close to such an effect (mental humming is possible). These techniques shift attention from vampire influence to counting the rhythm or pronouncing the text, in addition, any rhythm automatically stabilizes the emotional state, and therefore levels out energy attacks.
With energy vampires who use a knack for getting your energy (constantly complaining, whining or making claims), two methods can work: ignore and attack. Ignoring suits milder personalities, but takes a lot of time, because as long as you ignore the attacks of the energy vampire, he will test you for stamina and increase the strength or frequency of the impact. And only after a long time, making sure that it is impossible to get anything from you, the energy vampire will switch to another. Nerves in this method the mass can leave, and if there is no strength to endure, then it is better to choose an attack. It is worth attacking first and doing everything in order to spin the vampire into an energy surge by his own methods. They shout at you, start doing it as soon as you see a person, you are constantly complaining about life's troubles - call a person at three in the morning (set an alarm) to talk about the tragedy of a burned out light bulb. The vampire's energy pool is low and after one or more of these attacks, he will flee.
If the relationship with this person is not critically important to you, and the energy damage is great, then the best solution would be to stop all contacts. Any protection against energy vampirism is directly related to personal boundaries, the ability to defend them and show them to others.
How to get rid of energy vampirism
It is worth not only being able to identify vampires in your environment, but also taking a closer look at your own manifestations. To take pleasure in the suffering of others, to be proud of the ability to bring any person to a state of hysteria, or to admire one's manipulative abilities is possible for the time being.
The energy received from others by force does not bring either physical or spiritual development. It's like feeding on carrion and nitrogen fertilizers - great things for carrion birds of prey and plants, but absolutely unsuitable for humans. The same is the case with someone else's energy, which not so much saturates as poisons the energy reservoir.
The signs of your own energy vampirism are the same, only the difficulty of determining is that now you need to try them on yourself. If in the course of a dispute you have achieved the tears of another, then perhaps this is not the achievement of rightness and justice. Refusing to change and make concessions - this is about the absorption of other people's resources and the inability to invest in interaction on an equal footing.
To change the situation will help the search for their own resources and places to obtain energy, it will be necessary to reorganize and start accumulating it on their own. On initial stage you need to reorient yourself - walk more in nature, interact with trees, plant flowers, walk barefoot, contact with water, snow, fallen leaves. This is not yet the accumulation of one's own energy, but switching to other sources that are cleaner and more accessible to everyone without harm.
Need to raise your own energy level- for this, a change in nutrition is suitable, enrichment of the diet with vitamins and useful microelements. It is necessary to introduce sports that increase the overall physical and energy tone. Physical exercise also contribute to the development of positive emotions.
Provide yourself with sources of support in the form of faith, meditations, books, teachings. You can rely on such egregors indefinitely, unlike people who are quickly exhausted by your problems. In addition, the presence of such spiritual activities develops your own energy level, helps you understand yourself and what is happening in reality, find many other ways to get energy and joy, except for forcibly taking from others.