Wedding at home – great option! You are in a comfortable and cozy environment, the people closest to you are around you, and you are holding the hand of a person who is dearer to you than all the riches of the Earth.
For a wedding at home you will need funny scenario with competitions, taking into account the characteristics of the festive premises. If the apartment is quite large and has spacious rooms, then all the action will be concentrated in the main hall. If there are several small rooms, it doesn’t matter, choose a celebration format - a buffet. Place tables along the walls and prepare seating areas - sofas, armchairs for everyone. Use the rest of the area for dancing and entertainment.
When choosing a scenario, pay attention to the ratio of dance and table competitions: for a wedding at home, fun with the involvement of all guests, but preferably without leaving their seats, is better suited.
Connect the hands of the young people with a garland of flowers (Flowers can be made of paper)
As leaders in this scenario Witnesses for the newlyweds are chosen for the wedding at home. The apartment can be decorated with white bows, compositions of white flowers and sheaves of wheat.
Guests are waiting for the newlyweds at the entrance of the house with balloons and flowers. When the couple gets out of the car, someone shoots a confetti cracker over their head, and other guests can throw rice and coins. The groom carries his beloved in his arms across the threshold of the house. Parents meet a couple with a wheat loaf. The young people treat each other. Afterwards, according to tradition, for the strength of the marriage, the newlyweds are tied with a towel and escorted to the table with the words:
We knit tightly,
Fate will not untie you.
Step on the family path together, but smoothly,
To walk along it happily and well!
Everyone sits down at the tables.
Witness:
The fanfares sound loudly,
In honor of best couple on the ground,
Beautiful round dance of smiles,
We are not afraid to get drunk with love!
Good gentlemen, handsome guests,
Drink from the glass to the bottom,
So that our young people are good
We were side by side from now on and always!
Guests raise glasses of champagne. The newlyweds drink from glasses tied with white ribbon. The feast begins.
Witness:
Praise and admire you
We would like it endlessly!
We wish you a life full of miracles!
In the pockets of a ringing chervonets!
The ceremonial moment has arrived!
For our entire modest and cozy hall
Announce the words that bind
Convince your guests of your firm intentions!
Oath of the bride and groom
Together:
IN family life entering,
In front of parents, friends
In the presence of family and everyone
It is with seriousness that we declare:
Groom:
I chose my wife myself,
I will treasure it like the apple of my eye.
Loyalty, tenderness and attention,
Understanding all the whims,
I want to promise
And I swear to fulfill my oath.
Taking the post of head of the family,
I will take care of food.
I will become a support and friend,
Your worthy husband!
Bride:
I am getting married willingly and with joy
And I will address my husband with gentleness.
I will look after and please,
And the dinner is delicious to serve.
I will suggest smart thoughts,
I will not express my grievances
I promise to praise him
I accept the post of hostess!
Together: We swear! We swear! We swear!
Witness:
To be inseparable
A friend without a friend is not complete.
So that the family lives in harmony,
So that naughty people are born.
Full wallet
Will brighten your every day!
About worries and worries
Let it be unknown to you!
Let's not be embarrassed at all,
Let's shout "Bitter!" to our couple.
Table break
Witness:
Let everyone be surprised
Your love will last!
Parental blessing
It will seal the union for time to come!
From all our guests we give a simple wish
And at the same time, both affectionate and lively:
Let time pass and you grow younger,
And warm the young family with warmth,
We send you all the best and health,
For you festive toast let's lift!
Congratulations from parents
Witness: Dear newlyweds, you probably also want to congratulate your parents!
Response from the bride and groom.
Lighting the hearth
Witness: (to a light lyrical melody) I ask all guests to form a large circle!
In the center there are parents with newlywed children, and there the witness places a small table on which there is a single candle decorated with ribbons. The parents of the newlyweds light their candles and approach the couple.
Mother-in-law: A custom traces its history back to the beginning of time,
Newlyweds are given the gift of carrying fire.
To ignite the immortal, symbolic
Hearth of family - open your heart of love!
Mother-in-law:
Receive the hot flame from our hands,
And hide it carefully in your heart.
Let the fire of love burn tirelessly,
Like the light in the eyes, let it glow unquenchably.
Now forever and henceforth in your power
Light the family fire on a small flame.
Both come up and transfer the light from their candle to the small candles in the hands of the newlyweds. Parents extinguish their candles.
Witness: Our ancestors adhered to simple wisdom:
Protect the sacred hearth of the family,
Don't meet with trouble.
The bride and groom connect the flames of their candles over the wick of a single candle. After the wedding, it is recommended to store the candle for the time being, and then pass it on to your children.
Witness: The sun visited you and gave you a piece of its light, promising you its protection. Keep this valuable gift throughout your life as a symbol of your birth and the birth of your family. Let's raise our glasses to the hot warmth and constant light family hearth(surname of the newlyweds).
Table break.
A wedding dance
Witness:
Gentle sounds are heard in the distance,
The rustle of a dress, joyful laughter.
I predict the moment is coming
A charming dance of love!
I invite you wonderful couple to the center of the hall!
The newlyweds come out to the music and begin the first wedding dance. At the end of the waltz, witnesses shower the newlyweds with white rose petals.
Witness:
As the wise people say: “He who has grandparents does not know troubles!” I give the floor dear grandfathers and grandmothers!
Congratulations from the older generation. Aunts, uncles of respectable age, or other relatives can go with them or instead of them.
Witness: I propose a toast to wisdom!
After all, for a grandson, grandmother is the soul, and grandfather is the mind!
Another 100 years and cheerfulness to hearts
We sincerely wish you!
What's going on, look!
Everyone sits silently next to each other,
And they drink bitter wine!
You just need to shout it loud
What is actually “Bitter!”
The guests raise their glasses.
Table and dance break
Round dance around the young
The couple stands in the center of the hall; the guests form a ring around them. If there are many guests, form a double or triple ring, then the outer ring will move in a different direction from the inner one. The host begins, and the guests pick up the last phrase.
Witness:
U (the newlyweds' surname) at the gate
The round dance winds and winds,
The round dance winds and winds,
People are gathering.
Spring is red with flowers,
And the young with golden crowns!
The round dance circles and circles,
Blessings for the young!
The sun is rising in the sky,
Happiness comes to you as a gift!
The round dance circles and circles,
Blessings for the young!
Love has transformed you,
Don't talk back to your husband!
The round dance circles and circles,
Blessings for the young!
Dances, songs, wishes
Let there be no ending!
The round dance circles and circles,
Blessings for the young!
Issuing comic documents to newlyweds
Witness:
Worthy of all the highest blessings of the Earth
A union sealed by the Sun and Moon,
And they witnessed it
One hundred thousand good angels
Friends, girlfriends confirmed
The parents installed the seal.
I invite the newlyweds to accept a certificate of commendation and honor!
The presenter unrolls a scroll-letter (can be stylized and made of birch bark), tied with a ribbon.
Witness:
This birch bark certificate is awarded to young people,
Good fellow, and beautiful maiden.
For devoted, heartfelt love
What will happen to you for all eternity,
Yes, for mutual and personal wisdom,
Your choice is perfect!
You can live well, but don’t grow old,
And let the work and affairs proceed smoothly,
Let the darling children bloom and grow
To the great joy of grandparents,
Let your hearts shine with goodness,
You will meet the bird of happiness along the way!
And every year life will certainly be more beautiful,
And let your union be called a full cup!
The great French writer once said: “For lasting family happiness we need to look for and find outstanding qualities in each other, because love will not tolerate family squabbles.” Gold words! Friends, let’s raise our glasses so that our young people notice only the best sides in each other!
Table and musical break. Those who wish take to the dance floor.
Dance game "Dancing Hearts"
Witness: I invite the most beautiful and the smartest to the dance floor! The names of famous couples are written on these hearts, among them you will find Orpheus and Eurydice, Tristan and Isolde, Gray and Assol and many others. Your task is to find your soul mate, and then everyone dances! Whoever performs all the dances becomes an honorary winner! (After everyone finds each other, a medley of famous melodies is played: sirtaki, chardash, seven-forty, gypsy girl, rock and roll, dance of the little ducklings).
The Order of “Dancing Hearts” is solemnly awarded to the couple (names).
Parents' thanksgiving
Witness:
Newlyweds, I invite you to say words of gratitude to the most important, most worthy people in your destiny - your parents!
Show video greetings to parents. Afterwards, the newlyweds give lush bouquets to their mother-in-law and mother-in-law and gifts.
Fortune telling with guests
Witness: I invite the groom to the center of the room! We need the lucky hand of the chosen one of Fate, who managed to make happiness for himself!
The groom is served a ritual plant " Money Tree", the branches of which are decorated with small colored ribbons, and notes with predictions are tied to the ribbons.
Groom: Who is brave, come to us
I'll give you a sign for the future!
Only for seven guests
There is news in store here!
Seven volunteers come out.
Fortune cards:
- This is the fate that awaits you - You will now read a ditty in honor of the newlyweds!
- For you, the answer is: Write a couple of poems!
- It’s not in vain that you were prophesied to play a joke. Everyone knows you are a wonderful actor!
- The answer comes to you from the branches, You will sing like a nightingale!
- This is a prediction, listen. You must eat three slices of lemon!
- Providence sends you advice - Today this guest will give us a toast!
- Now you will find out your fate: You will tell us a riddle!
During the prank, the bride is kidnapped: she is quietly taken to another room.
Bride kidnapping
Now you will need the help of three guests. They are dressed up as the Serpent Gorynych: all three are dressed in a huge shirt, a cardboard tail is attached, a hat is put on one head, a smoking pipe is given to another, and sunglasses are given to the third.
Once the groom realizes that the bride is missing, the witness calls the kidnapper to come out and announce his terms.
Witness: Eh, Zmey Gorynych, what kind of mess have you created? It's such a holiday and fun! And you kidnapped the bride!
Dragon(the heads start talking and interrupt each other): I mean, I didn’t think of anything like that! I’m dying of boredom, you know, I’m bored! In my fairy tales, all the princesses are the same! Mortal boredom! Everyone will get tired of it! So I found myself a new beauty
Witness: Zmey Gorynych, and if we amuse you and amuse you well, then maybe you will give us the beautiful maiden?
Dragon: Uh, you won’t succeed!
Witness: Well, we'll see about that now! Tell me what do you like? What will lift your spirits?
Head in a hat:
— I am a ballet connoisseur!
Head with glasses:
- What a ballet! Cool rap is what will dispel any boredom!
Head with tube: What kind of tastes do you have? There is nothing better than love poetry! This will make me happy!
Witness: What a mix of genres! How, the groom, is he ready to save his beloved? Let your friends support you!
For ballet, prepare in advance simple skirts made of white rigid mesh. The song “Dance of the Little Swans” is stylized as a rap song. For the groom - a cap with wide nose and a text prepared in advance, or the groom composes a rap on the go. Friends dance, the groom raps expressively.
Dragon(dreamy): What a sight for sore eyes! Clear rap! Top class dance! I give in and capitulate! I'm giving away your bride!
Witness:
For the daring groom,
Don't miss it for your friends
Three times “Hurray!”
Yes, a dashing glass for anyone!
The guests raise their glasses.
Witness:
Guests, guests, gentlemen!
Well, it's time to stretch your sides!
Get out on the dance floor
Dance rock and roll!
Dance break
Throwing a bouquet
If desired, you can carry out classic version with throwing a bouquet to unmarried friends. This scenario offers an idea of a different nature.
Witness: The beautiful bride is invited to the dance floor! And also all the girlfriends who dream about the prince-groom! Organize a girl's round dance!
The bride is given a crown and blindfolded. Friends dance in circles to the music. Suddenly the melody stops, the bride puts the crown on the head of her friend who is in front of her.
Cutting the wedding cake
Witness: Dear friends, in a few seconds a real culinary miracle will appear in front of you! Dear newlyweds, cut the first piece for yourself!
The newlyweds cut a piece together and serve it to each other from a spoon.
Witness: And now the sweet auction begins! Guests can exchange a gift for a treasured piece, and poetry, dances and songs are also included in the settlement currency! I ask the youngest guests of the evening to take part first!
A fun cake sale begins.
End of the celebration
Witness:
Dear (names of the newlyweds)!
We call you husband and wife!
So it's time for the last tradition!
We will quietly remove the veil from the bride,
And despite silent protests
We will cover our heads with a home scarf.
We give the veil to mom for safekeeping.
The bride's mother accepts the veil, and the mother-in-law ties a scarf on her head.
Witness:
The candles on the table are quietly going out,
The evening ends with its run-up.
You will freely step on your path.
You have to walk on it foot to foot.
Witness:
And we are both support and help for you,
We wish you never to lose heart!
To come down from heaven on you
Radiant grace!
Witness: Always be close to each other
And in joy, and in happiness, and in trouble.
Witness:
And to cement the union
Easily blow out the candles on the table!
Props for a wedding
- Balloons, flowers, firecrackers;
- Wedding loaf, towel;
- 4 small candles and 1 large single candle;
- A certificate of honor issued in the form of a scroll;
- Competitions: paper hearts with couples' names, comic order"Dancing Hearts" decorated with "Money Tree" notes;
- Video greetings and gifts to parents;
- Snake Gorynych costume, ballet tutus, love rap text, crown.
Home wedding video
Of course, a wedding is a solemn moment for the newlyweds, and it would be unforgivable not to film the entire event.
If it happens that your friends’ wedding is small, but you want it to be remembered with all its cheerful mood, originality and comfort - feel free to get down to business, our wedding script for small company without a toastmaster - exactly what you need. So, we carefully read the script, analyze what is needed for the wedding - props, decorations, wedding loaf and cake, prizes for competitions, etc. Next, all that remains is to bring everything to life and present your talent to your friends! The absence of a toastmaster does not prevent an interesting celebration of the most important day in the life of the newlyweds!
So, wedding scenario - 2017 without a toastmaster for a small company
We offer to take on the mission of leading the holiday to the witness and the witness, or the honorary matchmaker and matchmaker. Holding a wedding with loved ones for young people will give the evening a special charm. Believe me, the bride and groom will forever remember everything that their friends did for them on this day.
Well, preparations for the holiday are completed, the exciting day has arrived, the newlyweds, happy and excited, drove up to the wedding venue by car.
Meeting of the bride and groom
In order for guests not to languish while waiting for the bride and groom, who, as a rule, are usually late, before the arrival of the newlyweds, the groom and witness invite the guests to drink a glass of champagne and eat small fruit and meat snacks. Telephone communication with the bride and groom should be under the control of the witness and witness - they will be the main organizers of the wedding for a small company without a toastmaster.
So, at the moment when the wedding car drives up to the wedding yard for a small company without a toastmaster, the witnesses ask the guests present for their attention, because in a few moments the bride and groom will appear in the hall.
Romantic solemn music sounds. Witnesses begin the ceremony of meeting the newlyweds.
WITNESS: A woman and a man. These two words are inseparable. He was created to become the main thing in her life. She will always be his guiding star, which will lead him to success. Him, the man.
WITNESS: And together, in love, they will give life to beautiful children, they will delight their parents with new successes and achievements, new victories. All this will happen, but later. In the meantime...
WITNESS: Dear parents, relatives, friends!
Today the door of the restaurant "____" is open to family and friends, to those who want to raise a glass in honor of the young couple.
WITNESS: Every person in life has significant dates and the most significant dates. Significant ones are the day of entry into school, graduation, first salary.
WITNESS: Today we celebrate the birthday of a young, but very beautiful story the love of two beautiful young people. To your thunderous applause, allow me to invite our groom Alexei into the hall!
Rhythmic modern music sounds, Alexey enters the hall.
WITNESS: Well, let's look into the eyes of our groom - we see that he is especially excited today - he has been looking forward to this day for 3 long years. Every evening he went to bed and woke up with the name of his beloved on his lips. For her, he is ready to say goodbye to his habits, bachelor frivolity, passion for football and fishing, and devote all his time to his beloved.
WITNESS: Let's all meet together in festive hall our bride Elena!
The exit of the angel with the bride. “Angel” sprinkles rose petals in front of the bride
WITNESS: Dear parents of young people, go up to your children and shower them with folk custom.
WITNESS: We'll tell you that your family was prolific.
Parents sprinkle young ones with rye
WITNESS: Sprinkle with spring wheat so that you are a couple in love.
Parents sprinkle wheat on young ones
WITNESS: We will sprinkle you with a handful of sweets so that you can live together for a hundred sweet years.
Parents sprinkle young ones with caramels
WITNESS: Dear parents, we ask you to bless your children for a happy family life.
WITNESS: Come to the people closest to you for a blessing. As per tradition, bow low to them three times.
WITNESS: Since ancient times, the loaf was considered the main bread of the Russian home. It is a symbol of fertility, procreation, family and tribal unity, happiness, health and well-being.
WITNESS: In its shape, the loaf is likened to the sun and, according to popular beliefs, is the incarnation of the Sun god, who descends to earth to take under his wing the newlyweds, who are entering into a long and happy life. So, kiss him three times in turn. And you, parents, give the loaf to the honorary matchmakers
Farewell to childhood
WITNESS: It seems that we could invite everyone to the table, but our bride still... has not said goodbye to her maiden name, and the groom has not said goodbye to his bachelor life. We desperately need to dot the “i’s” immediately.
WITNESS: I want the bride to tell us very loudly what her last name will be from now on.
The bride loudly announces her new surname.
WITNESS: Then, quickly write your old name on this balloon and release it into the sky to the applause of your guests.
The witness brings the bride a bouquet of balloons inflated with gel, colored markers, the bride writes her old surname on the balloons, and together with the groom sends all this beauty into the sky.
Gifts from guests
WITNESS: Dear bride and groom! Today the most dear and close people came to congratulate you.
Here, the falcon found Swan. They decided to build a nest,
To love each other and raise children,
And you need a lot of feathers for the nest, oh, how necessary!
WITNESS: Give for your grandchildren, and for the cradle..., - this is what grandmothers said a long time ago, but we will say frankly - young people need a material base: we will explain why...
WITNESS: In order to buy a chair to sit on, a table to sit at, a TV to watch,
WITNESS: A machine in which to wash diapers,
Carpet - so that there is something to knock the dust out of,
A car to take my mother-in-law for a ride,
A refrigerator so that you have somewhere to look often...
WITNESS: And therefore, I invite here – the counting and collection – the shaking out commission.
WITNESS: Chief Accountant of our commission, aka the FIRST MATCHmaker, Mr. ____________________.
WITNESS: The matchmakers accept flowers and gifts for the newlyweds and report to them, and I introduce each guest by name!
Well, our dear guests,
It's your turn now
Let each of the wallets, out of your pocket
The first one receives his contribution.
Don't forget about inflation
Even shares are donated,
And EUROS, and rubles, and dollars,
Banknotes of any color.
Both gold and silver
And other expensive goods.
Guests give gifts to the newlyweds. After this, the witnesses invite everyone to the festive table.
WITNESS: Allow me to start the wedding! Bride and groom, stand facing the guests. Bow the first time, and the second time, and the third time. Invite guests to wedding table!
Wedding feast "Champagne fireworks"
To ensure that wedding guests for a small company without a toastmaster do not get bored, the witnesses will have to try a little. Before the first toast, invite all the guests to stand up, the men to take champagne in their hands, and to the applause of the guests, open all the bottles at the same time - you will get a wedding fireworks of champagne.
Toasts
Proclaim the first toast “For Love” immediately after the champagne fireworks. The second toast is usually proclaimed by the parents of the newlyweds. The third toast is to our own grandparents. Fourth toast - God-parents young. Fifth toast - dear uncles and aunts. After the fourth toast, have some fun for the bride and groom.
Fun for the bride and groom “While everyone is at home”
Witnesses present hearts made of cardboard to the bride and groom on two trays. On back side The bride's questions and the groom's answers are written in the heart. Witnesses invite the young people to take turns reading the texts from the hearts. Here are the options.
Bride's heartfelt questions:
1. The only one, will you help me clean the house?
2. My dear, is raising ostriches a profitable business?
3. My cat, will we vacation in the Canary Islands every year?
4. Bunny, I know that you love children. Would you mind starting a family football team?
5. Breadwinner, is it true that you will give me all your earnings?
6. My happiness, will you return home immediately after work?
7. My joy, will we have our own plane?
8.
“Hearty” answers from the groom:
1. As you say, my dearest!
2. We'll wait and see, my little bunny!
3. Definitely, my little fish!
4. I only dream about this, my love!
5. Everything is in your hands, dear!
6. Dream, dream, my dear!
7. If finances allow, my heart!
8.
Competitions in a wedding scenario without a toastmaster for a small company
Competition for the bride and groom “I recognize you from a million”
The first test is for the young wife. The bride is blindfolded. Several men are seated on chairs in the center of the hall. The bride is brought to the men, the bride’s task is to use her hands, feeling the men’s ears, to recognize her husband.
The second test is for the groom. Now he is blindfolded, and the girls are sat on chairs; they must take off their shoes and put their feet forward. The groom must guess by touch which of the ladies is his wife.
Competition for the mother of the groom and mother of the bride “Matchmaker”
For this competition you need to prepare props - two very long, 5-6 meters ropes, or rubber bands, you need to glue a ballpoint pen to them. The handles will symbolize the “needle”, the elastic bands will symbolize the “Thread”. Witnesses say that the mothers of our newlyweds are experienced women, they can glue and sew everything that is necessary and not necessary. Therefore, their task is to assemble a team of several men (4, 5 each), then sew them together. To do this you need to insert ballpoint pen with an elastic band into the left leg of the trousers, and take it out through the right one, then sew it on next man, and so on until the last. The mom who succeeds first wins the “Magic Matchmaker” competition.
Competition for guests "Mutual Contact"
Among the guests you need to choose couples who actively dance. They are placed in the center of the hall. Men sit on chairs, women sit on their laps. The witness gives each pair a napkin.
The music turns on, the task of the couples is to rub the napkin using dance movements.
The most energetic couple who succeeded first receives a prize from the young couple.
Competition for youth “Christmas trees”
Witnesses select several couples for the competition. The guys are blindfolded and given props—drink cans pinned to clothespins. The task is to pin the “Toys” onto the “Christmas trees”. Then, partners are changed without opening their eyes, and they are offered to remove the “toys”.
The young man's task is to find all the clothespins while blindfolded. Needed: 10-12 clothespins for each pair, empty tin cans, scarves to cover your eyes.
"Aerial Dance"
Couples should dance while holding balloon ik forehead, back, stomach, buttocks... Music should be modern and fast.
End of the holiday
A beautiful end to the holiday will be the ceremony of removing the veil from the bride. It should be accompanied by beautiful and romantic music. The groom takes off the bride's veil, then kisses his wife and dances the first family dance with her.
Then, the bride and groom must cut their a wedding cake, eat the first piece of cake together, and treat your guests with the remaining pieces.
In parting, the bride and groom thank everyone present at the holiday for the joy of sharing the holiday of love with them.
Then, all together - the guests and newlyweds rejoice at the wedding fireworks in honor of their love, which will illuminate the night sky...
We hope that you liked the wedding scenario for a small company without a toastmaster and you will definitely bring it to life.
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A wedding is a fabulous moment in the life of the newlyweds. To make this magical moment memorable for the rest of your life, you need to think in advance about how to organize the wedding.
Wedding preparations. Budget
When preparing for a wedding celebration, it is necessary to draw up a plan for its holding and determine the upcoming expenses. Additional expenses may arise during preparation, so possible changes in the budget must be provided for in the prepared estimate. During the purchase, it is recommended to strictly follow the spending plan, so as not to later borrow from relatives or go on credit.
Wedding concept
Newlyweds strive to decorate their wedding in the same style. Now they have become fashionable, so everything from invitations, hall decoration, menus, gifts to the wedding dresses of the bride and groom must correspond to the chosen style. Guests learn about the general concept of the wedding from the lips of the newlyweds, and the invitation cards give clear recommendations in what style the celebration will be held.
Marriage registration and wedding
This procedure is traditionally carried out in the registry office. All moments of the wedding should be captured by an invited photographer and videographer.
How to organize a wedding so that both the marriage registration and the wedding take place on the same day? IN church calendar full of holy fasts and various holidays during which weddings cannot take place. Therefore, when choosing a date, you need to take this moment into account and combine the sacrament of the wedding.
Outdoor wedding ceremony
If you want to celebrate a wedding outdoors in a picturesque corner, then it is better to entrust all the preparatory aspects to the shoulders of specialized companies and entrust them to people who are well versed in this. They will bring and set up the tents, set the table, and then clean everything up. Outdoor wedding – interesting shape holding a celebration, but there is one thing: success will depend on the weather, and it is very unpredictable and often presents unexpected surprises. Therefore, you need to think carefully before deciding to organize a wedding outdoors.
Choosing a restaurant for a wedding
The wedding is planned to be held in a restaurant whose staff has proven themselves well. Everything is important: the kitchen, the beautiful hall, and polite waiters. If the restaurant is unfamiliar to you, you need to visit the establishment several times in order to familiarize yourself with the quality of the dishes offered and the banquet service in general.
Choosing a host for the celebration
A professional host is the answer to the question: “How to hold a wedding,” and the newlyweds will only have to enjoy the magic of the evening. Where to find a real professional? Take the advice of your friends, maybe they can recommend you a competent wedding planner. The process will depend on his professional skills wedding celebration. You should discuss all the nuances with the presenter or toastmaster, and once again go through the script that he will offer you so as not to miss important details.
Wedding invitation cards
Having decided on the date and location of the wedding, you need to invite guests. Know the sooner guests receive invitation cards, the more time they will have to prepare morally and materially! They will be able to find good gift, and not buy something in a hurry.
Choosing a wedding dress for the bride
Every girl's dream is to get married. Beautiful Wedding Dress plays important role, because the bride should look beautiful. The choice of dress depends on the theme of the wedding and the personal preferences of the bride. You can buy tight, curvy, simple or original dress. Wedding salons offer big choice wedding dresses, and the prices for dresses are also different.
When choosing a dress, remember that the outfit should not restrict movement and should be moderately loose so as not to impede breathing. The bride should feel comfortable in it, because she will have to drink and eat a lot, dance and walk, so convenience comes first!
Selection of wedding rings
The symbol of marriage is considered wedding rings, so newlyweds choose them carefully. In jewelry stores you can buy ready-made rings, and if you don’t like them, you can order wedding rings. To match the rings beautiful boxes, after all, you won’t carry them to the registry office in your hands.
Wedding hairdresser and makeup artist
High hairstyles are not in fashion now bright makeup. Brides prefer fresh makeup and light, stylish hairstyles. Makeup should highlight the beauty of the bride, and not turn her into a bright doll. The chosen master must have modern views on fashion. Brides need to think in advance about what kind of makeup and hairstyle they would like to wear for their wedding. You can practice several times and take a closer look at which option is more acceptable.
Decoration of the wedding procession and banquet hall
You can decorate the cars yourself, with the help of your bridesmaids. Decor banquet hall better to trust professional florists who decorate the room according to your wishes and personal taste.
Entertainment at a wedding
Bride ransom is the most fun wedding entertainment. How entertaining and interesting this stage will be will depend only on the guests. Traditional wedding ceremonies involve the following ransom scenario: in order to meet the bride, the groom overcomes difficult path saturated with numerous obstacles. Guests must support the young man and then the bride ransom scenario will go 100%!
Artists and music at the festival
You need to familiarize yourself with the repertoire that will be at your wedding in advance. To do this, you need to discuss all the details with the presenter, because he has his own arsenal of music for festive events. If you don't like something, it's better to say so right away so you don't have to be disappointed later. How to organize a wedding so that all guests are happy? You should order from a well-coordinated team that has experience in holding weddings. It may also happen that your guests turn out to be quite artistic individuals and then everything will go smoothly. top level. The fewer boring faces, the more likely it is that the celebration was a success.
Video and photography for the holiday
When preparing for a wedding, you need to choose a good photographer. The toastmaster you choose can suggest a suitable candidate. When meeting with a photographer, you should ask him to show his portfolio. If you like his work, then you have found a professional.
The choice of videographer should also be approached consciously. When editing a wedding film, you should discuss the background music and the presence of special video effects. You shouldn’t skimp on the services of a photographer and cameraman, because your wedding film and high-quality photographs will stay with you for life.
Transport for the wedding
Where can I find transport? In any city you can hire any type of vehicle: Cars, limousines, buses. Drivers must be punctual, polite and tactful. For the bride and groom, choose a beautiful executive car, and guests can be offered a comfortable bus if they did not come in their own personal car.
How to avoid unexpected situations
A wedding is a complex event, so don’t be upset if any nuances arise. How to hold a wedding so that everything goes the way you planned. To do this you need:
- draw up a wedding plan, clarify the budget and leave a small reserve for unforeseen expenses;
- inviting guests should be done in advance, and before the wedding day it is recommended to clarify whether all those invited will be present at the celebration;
- in the ordered restaurant there should be only your banquet, “without prying eyes”;
- pay for everything in advance or immediately after the end of the banquet;
- you need to appoint a person responsible for gifts;
- donated money must be put in a safe, thoughtful place;
- the bride is recommended to take with her a cosmetic bag, put powder, lipstick, mascara, cosmetic wipes, a needle, thread; An instant stain remover would also be useful.
Wedding is good mood! How to make a wedding? The result of a well-executed celebration will be new emotions, high spirits and joy from the fact that everything planned has come true. Young people have their whole life ahead of them, and a wedding is only a small step towards a big and happy married life.
You decided to have a high-profile wedding, but at the last moment you lost the toastmaster, and he had to hold the ceremony, the script and many other little things? Don’t worry, you can celebrate the holiday yourself.
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How to hold a wedding without a toastmaster?
I want the wedding day to be memorable not only for the bride and groom, but also for the guests of the event. Young people always try to diversify the day as much as possible, order decorators, DJs and, of course, a host, or, as he is also called, a toastmaster. This is the person who knows what to do and how to entertain guests. To do this, he most often prepares a wedding script, according to which he conducts the ceremony and the entire evening after it. At this kind of celebration, the most different people, not only ordinary students, but also older and more accomplished people who have achieved something in life. It is the toastmaster who can unite them, find mutual language with everyone and show you how good it is to walk and have fun.
But if it’s not there, but you want the wedding to take place and go off “without a hitch,” you can independently draw up a script for it. This way, guests will be able to get to know each other better and faster, and by the middle of the evening you will be surprised at how good and fun everyone is. The script must draw out each scene in detail so that everyone knows their place and there is no confusion in time. There are some moments that take place at every wedding, but no one knows the script for them: this is the wedding, the painting itself, a walk through beautiful places and at the same time a photo shoot and a banquet.
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Before you sit down to develop a script, try to find out these facts:
- the exact number of guests who are going to come to the event;
- age categories;
- the status of each guest, what you can and absolutely cannot talk about with him;
- what mentality, views, traditions, interests of your guest.
Wedding scenario in a narrow circle without a toastmaster
For a small wedding party, you can think very carefully good script, which will help relatives learn even more about each other and about the bride and groom. Therefore, if you have a small wedding, it will come in handy. When preparing for the ceremony, first of all, you must understand that this is a big responsibility that not everyone can handle; carefully think through and plan every step, and these instructions will help you with this:
- The scenario of a small wedding without a toastmaster assumes a traditional meeting of the newlyweds. To do this, the future mother-in-law brings them bread and salt on a towel, and the mother-in-law, in turn, brings them wheat grains. At this moment, solemn music will not be superfluous;
- The young people must bow low to their parents and break off a piece of the loaf, while the mother-in-law sprinkles wheat on the bride and groom. Then the witnesses and the newlyweds sit down at the table, and all the other guests do the same;
- Now the time has come to say the first words of congratulations. It is best to have them said by the parents of the bride, then the groom. Behind them are grandparents and other guests who want to congratulate the couple;
- if you already see that the guests have reached a certain condition, start holiday program, it is worth including the most various competitions, games and competitions. They should go in such an order that no one gets bored and everyone takes part. But in no case should you forget about the first dance of the newlyweds; after it, invite guests and dance all together;
- try to notice which of the guests is bored, and invite him either to dance or, on the contrary, back to the table, thus alternating feasts and dances;
- Towards the end of the evening, arrange a regular disco; it is better to select the music, taking into account the age of all the guests, and not just one. So, everyone will be able to feel comfortable and will know that they have not been forgotten, you can hold karaoke, let the guests compete in their knowledge of world hits;
- At the end of the evening, cut the wedding one and treat everyone who is present at your celebration. Then you can arrange a farewell to bachelor life for the newlyweds, mothers take off their daughters’ veils, the groom’s boutonniere, the bride throws a bouquet, the groom throws a garter, everyone dances the last dance. But if you want to party all night long, no one forbids you, leave the DJ and let the music play until the morning, until you, tired, return to your bed.
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This is what a wedding for a small company can be like. Everything is quite simple, but tasteful; not a single guest here will be left without your attention. A small wedding script is simple and much easier to follow, think about it when you invite 100, 150 or more guests.
Wedding options that will surprise everyone
Not all couples prefer ordinary painting; some dream of extreme sports, drive, or, on the contrary, absolute peace and unity of soul with soul. Therefore, urgently gather a council of your most creative friends and start discussing everything possible options. A wedding without a toastmaster should still have a host, it can be any of the guests, it all depends on the situation, and as you know, they can be different, for example, arrange a ceremony in nature. If you thought about a park in your neighborhood, this is not it at all.
The wedding will be remembered by everyone if you decide to have it on the top of a mountain, using all the climbing paraphernalia. This idea is suitable for those who are into rock climbing and are not afraid of difficulties. It is unusual and bold to have a wedding at sea with scuba gear. This is an option for diving enthusiasts, although you are unlikely to succeed a passionate kiss, but believe me, you will never forget the emotions you experienced.
There is also something for big extreme sports enthusiasts great option- marriage in the sky. It will be an excellent symbol of your love without boundaries. More precisely, it’s not even in the sky, but directly in the air, just jumping with a parachute. And even if you are not athletes and don’t do this all the time, you don’t have to choose a huge height; you can first take a few lessons from professionals.
But if, on the contrary, you simply adore peace, you can have a wedding on the shore of an island, where there will be almost no people, just you and a few guests who will come to rejoice for you. Light breeze, seagulls, sound of waves, music and unusual beautiful bride will remain in memory forever. At the same time, the atmosphere of true love will be in the air.
If your chosen one is interested in football, why not have a wedding on the field? The same, by the way, applies to other sports, the main thing is that you have the desire, and everything else will follow. WITH unusual wedding Most likely you will have to work hard, but believe me, it's worth it. Memories, photos, videos will be simply amazing, and none of the guests will remain indifferent to what is happening.
So you’ve learned how to celebrate a wedding without a toastmaster. It turns out that this is not so difficult, you just need to think through everything carefully and find among the guests that person who knows or at least has an idea how to lead your celebration. If you have always thought that without a toastmaster a wedding cannot take place, then, as you can see, any issue can be resolved. The main thing is that there is always mutual understanding and love between you!
An interesting article for future newlyweds. Several scenarios for a wedding.
A wedding is one of the most unforgettable events for a couple. Therefore, I want to celebrate in a fun atmosphere with friends and family. Nowadays, European-style weddings are in fashion, which are held without the participation of a toastmaster. But you shouldn’t think that the celebration will consist only of a modest feast. You can take on the role of leader.
Comical original script for a wedding anniversary
Of course, a wedding anniversary, and especially an anniversary, should be spent in the company of those closest to you. To make the holiday fun, you can arrange various competitions and games.
Approximate scenario for a wedding anniversary
It is not necessary to link the script to specific date, but you can mention this. It is advisable to choose two presenters for the celebration. It is best if it is a man and a woman.
Leaders' words:
Greetings, dear guests
Throw away all your sorrows
And get ready to have fun
To enjoy your wedding to the fullest.
Don't forget to fill your glasses
And drink together to the newlyweds.
Questions and Answers Competition
Address to the couple (heroes of the occasion):
Now you have a task
A very responsible test
You go out to the center of the hall together
Choose your answers to the questions well.
For this competition, you need to prepare two bags with questions and answers for the groom in advance. Questions could be something like this:
- Honey, do you want a lot of kids?
- Will you call my parents "Mom" and "Dad"?
- Shall we get a dog?
- Will you buy me a fur coat?
The bride takes out pieces of paper from the first bag, and the groom takes out the answers from the second. The answers should be:
- Only after the silver wedding
- Dream on baby
- If salary allows
Thus, the groom chooses the answers to the questions at random. It turns out very original and fun.
Fun lottery
After this competition, the couple sits down and takes a short break to have a snack and drink. Guests are sure to shout “Bitter”! When the invitees and the husband and wife have a little rest at the table, the second host asks the guests to purchase comic lottery. You don’t have to name the price; let each of the invitees give as much money as they see fit.
Leader's words:
“Dear guests rested, drank a little, had a party
Now we ask you to come and purchase the lottery.”
A basket of papers is prepared in advance. Each of the guests must take out the package and read aloud what is written inside. For example:
- Don't be sad, crunch it. We give you a cracker (a pack of crackers is handed over)
- This thing may be useful to you. You will have to recover from your hangover in the morning (you will be given a bottle of beer or low-alcohol drink)
- Our gift is modest and is called a pencil (I give pencils to the guest)
- You'll soon say thank you, and the gift best book(the guest is given a magazine with crossword puzzles)
- There is a lot of fun going on right now. And our present will save you from a hangover tomorrow (they hand over Aspirin)
IMPORTANT! It is necessary to give guests a little break from competitions. The invitees and the heroes of the occasion drink and eat.
After a short break, the heroes of the occasion are presented with gifts. This needs to be done as a joke. It is worth making an agreement with one of the guests in advance. The presenters must prepare a large box of broken bottles. The box is beautifully packaged. One of the guests criticizes the gift for the newlyweds and says that this set is incredibly expensive, and it took him a long time to choose it. When presented, the guest drops the box with the “gift” on the floor. Everybody hears the sound broken glass. After this, the guest announces that this is a joke and gives the couple his real gift.
Bride kidnapping competition
It is necessary to quietly lead the bride out of the hall during the dance. After this, the presenter says that the bride has disappeared, and in order to ransom her, the groom needs to dance a striptease. After the groom's dance, one of the invited men comes out, dressed in the bride's dress, and sits on the groom's lap. The guest says that he will return the bride if the groom gives him a bottle of Hennessey. However, you don’t necessarily need to buy this elite drink. You can stick a drawing on a bottle of cognac quick hand Hennessy label. After the ransom, the couple dances one last dance by candlelight. The guests eat the cake and leave.
Scenario for a wedding banquet
Increasingly, newlyweds are trying to save money on their wedding. Most young people prefer to go on vacation abroad rather than spend huge amounts of money on luxurious banquets. But this does not mean that the holiday will be boring. Can be prepared in advance interesting competitions and the script for the celebration.
During the wedding celebration you must:
- Thank your parents
- Congratulate the newlyweds
- Organize a bride kidnapping
- Thank guests
- Cheer up your guests using contests and lotteries
Fun competitions for weddings
They can be announced by one of the guests. It's best if it's close girlfriend bride or groomsman.
- Competition "Attraction". To conduct the competition, you need to pack items in advance big boxes. At the same time, there is no need to say that it is packed. Required in in a comic form describe the subject. For example: milk storage container (bra), egg tray (family panties), washing machine(grout) sewing machine(needle and thread). Guests must bargain after the auction is announced. The starting price can be 5-10 rubles. The money is put into a bag for the newlyweds. After purchasing items, guests are asked to unbox prizes.
- Competition "Casanova". It is necessary to select several among the guests cheerful men. The music turns on and the man must collect more kisses within a certain period of time. The count is based on the number of lipstick marks on a man's face. Women should not give up immediately, the participant wins the kiss
- Competition of questions for guests. This is a traditional and fun competition. It is necessary to prepare leaflets with questions and answers in advance. They are put in different boxes. The questions should be like this: do you like alcohol? Have you ever danced a striptease? You hide yours from your partner additional income? Do you have connections on the side? The answers may be: knowing me, you don’t have to ask, I get pleasure from it, only at night in bed, I’m ashamed to admit it in front of everyone. Usually this competition is accompanied by laughter
Modern wedding scenario for a wedding with unusual and fun competitions
This scenario is ideal for young guests. All competitions are fun and active:
- Portrait. Several participants are selected for this competition. Each competitor is given sheets of paper and pencils. Everyone must draw someone invited. On the back, in small letters, you need to write who is depicted in the portrait. Then these drawings are distributed to the guests and they must guess who is drawn in the portrait. Whose drawing gets the most correct answers is the winner. Portraits are given to the person depicted in them.
- Who was born? Several are selected for this fun competition married couples. Women stand opposite their men. The presenter distributes information to women about born baby. On the sheets of paper you can write: a Chinese man with sly eyes was born, a black baby who screams all the time. In this case, the woman must show her partner with gestures what is written on the piece of paper. The man who most correctly solves the encrypted information wins
- Competition "Drunkard". This competition is built on the principle of the children's game “The odd one out.” For this, 5-6 participants are selected. One less glass than the number of competitors is placed on the table. The music turns on and the participants walk around the table. As soon as the presenter claps his hands or the music stops, you need to grab the glass and empty it. Whoever doesn't get a drink is out
- Competition "Baby". To do this, several men who love beer are invited to the stage. Each bottle comes with a nipple. Whichever participant empties the container the fastest wins
Scenario for a small wedding party with friends
It is advisable for matchmakers to take on the role of leading. If they are elderly, then it is possible for the celebration to be carried out by girlfriends and friends of the newlyweds. Before the newlyweds arrive, the hosts offer guests snacks and champagne in the restaurant lobby.
After the spouses arrive, it turns on romantic music, and the children sprinkle rose petals on a couple. One of the presenters suggests that the bride say goodbye to her maiden name. To do this, the girl is given an armful of balloons filled with helium and a marker. The bride must write her maiden name on each of the balloons and release them into the sky.
- Competitions for the bride and groom. This is a kind of test for newlyweds. It is necessary to seat several men in the center of the hall. The bride is blindfolded. She must use her hands to feel the ears of each candidate and determine where her husband is. The groom won't be bored either. He is blindfolded. Several girls sit on chairs and bare their legs. The groom must feel his legs to determine where his beloved is
- Competition for guests. It is necessary for the presenter to select several active couples in the hall. Men sit on chairs, and something is placed on their laps paper napkin. Women sit on their partners' laps. The music is turned on and the participants must rub the napkins with their buttocks and legs
- Competition for invitees "Clothespins". Traditional and very fun competition. Several pairs are selected. Men are given empty tin cans on ropes and clothespins. Participants are blindfolded. They must pin jewelry on their chosen ones. Then you can ask them to remove the jewelry hands-free. with open eyes. This competition brings people together if they are not married
- Dance competition. Couples are given air balloons, incendiary music is turned on. Partners must burst the ball while dancing, squeezing it with their buttocks or chest
The wedding ends with the ceremony of removing the veil. To do this, romantic music is turned on, the groom takes off the bride’s veil and dances the first family dance with her. Next, the newlyweds thank the guests for congratulating them. The couple cut the wedding cake and distribute it to the guests. At the end of the evening, everyone enjoys the wedding fireworks.
Scenario for a wedding evening with competitions for the toastmaster. Wedding celebration script for toastmaster
Typically, the scenario for a wedding with a toastmaster is divided into two parts: introductory and table. At the very beginning, after the newlyweds arrive, they are sprinkled with wheat grains and rose petals.
- Affectionate as
- Beautiful as
- Caring as
- Smart as
After each proposal, she pulls out a piece of paper with an animal that the groom wrote. In the same way, a competition is held with the bride’s answers. Laughter echoes throughout the hall.
Voting for the gender of the baby born in a couple is considered traditional. For fun game The toastmaster brings out two people to the guests, one blue and the other pink. Each of the guests must put some money into the chosen little man.
Accordingly, if one of the invitees wants to vote for a girl, he must spend money in pink clothes. The gender that collects the most money will win.
The toastmaster can prepare a bottle of champagne with a photo of the bride and groom in advance.
IMPORTANT! The lovers will have to open the bottle in exactly one year.
- Competition "What's in the glass." Fun competition for all guests. To carry it out, 100 g of vodka is poured into a glass. You need to put a straw in each container. The toastmaster announces that there is water in all glasses except one. Guests need to determine which glass contains vodka by the grimaces of the participants. At the end of the competition, the presenter admits that all the glasses contain vodka
- Nodules. A fun competition that will allow you to have fun with the participants. The toastmaster invites several people of different genders and ages to participate. Each participant is given a rope 1 m long. Each participant must tie as many knots as possible. After everyone has done it, the toastmaster announces that the winner will be the one who first unties all the knots
- A fun competition for men. The toastmaster invites several men who have served in the army to the stage. They are given neatly folded T-shirts and asked to quickly put them on. After this, participants are blindfolded and given family underpants. Men will try to put on briefs, thinking they are tank tops.
Original wedding scenarios with competitions at home
If the wedding is celebrated at home, then most often the closest people and friends are among the invitees. Everyone has long been tired of the usual noisy feasts. It is worth taking a responsible approach to organizing the celebration and thinking through every little detail.
An essential part of any wedding:
- Newlyweds meeting
- New couple's first dance
- Congratulations and toasts
- Competitions, games and competitions
- Presentation of gifts
- Dancing and disco
- Farewell to girlhood and bachelorhood
- Eating birthday cake
To prevent the wedding from seeming boring, it is necessary to dilute the traditional part with fun games and competitions. At the same time, you need to try so that the guests do not get bored and do not have time to get pretty drunk. To do this, after drinking 1-2 glasses, they organize some kind of competition.
Competitions for weddings at home
- Stuffed cabbage rolls. Comic competition, in which a man is invited to participate. They blindfold him and announce that there is a woman lying on the sofa with a sweet candy in her mouth. He must find the candy and eat it without using his hands. But a man lies down on the sofa without candy, while the music “Blue Moon” plays
- Appetite. Couples are invited to the competition, they are blindfolded and swapped. Participants need to eat a banana; a different participant bites from each edge. Thus, the contestants will meet lips. It's fun if the participants are of the same gender
- Pregnant wife. A fun competition for men. It is necessary for the witness and the groom to glue the balloon with tape at the level of the stomach. A box of matches is poured onto the floor, and the participants must collect everything and not burst the ball.
Scenario for a wedding evening in a narrow circle
The scenario depends on where the celebration is held, at home or in a cafe. In a restaurant, you can organize mobile competitions that require a lot of space. At home, people mostly choose games and competitions at or near the table. You can even arrange quizzes at the beginning of the celebration while all the guests are sober.
- Striptease. A circle is made using chairs. 10 participants are selected, the same number of chairs are taken. The music is turned on and after it is turned off, the participants must put any thing on the chair where they stopped. The number of items taken depends on how close the contestants are. Next, the music turns on again and the participants are already putting on the item from the chair where they stopped
- Fashion boutique. For the competition you need to take a large bag and put funny clothes in it. This could be size 58 panties or a size 10 bra. Each contestant takes an item from the bag and puts it on. It is necessary not to take off your outfit for 30 minutes
- Kamikaze. A fun competition to improve your mood. A glass is placed on the table, each person sitting must pour a little strong drink into the container and pass it on. Whoever has a full glass must drink it
Scenario for a Russian wedding ceremony. Costumes for Russian weddings
A few centuries ago, our ancestors observed all the subtleties of Russian rituals. Now many are striving to organize a European, sea wedding. But still, some newlyweds want to observe traditions.
The main stages of the Russian wedding ceremony:
- Matchmaking
- Collusion
- hen-party
- Wedding
- The wedding night
- wedding feast
It is on the wedding day that the celebration begins with the grooming of the bride. A friend helps her get dressed. In this case, the groom is at home and should not see his beloved. Next, the man comes for his lady. The bride's relatives ask for ransom. After this, the newlyweds go to get married in church (at the registry office).
It was considered traditional in Rus' for newlyweds to meet with wheat sprinkled on them, but now many couples are abandoning this tradition. Newlyweds choose rose petals or bubble. The newlyweds are always greeted with a loaf of bread and salt. There is a belief that whoever bites off the most will be the head of the family.
Previously, after the arrival of the newlyweds, their parents lit a fireplace; this was considered a sign of a family hearth. This tradition has now been replaced by lighting candles at the end of the evening.
Costumes for Russian weddings
Clothes for a bride's wedding are quite complex and varied. In Rus', a shirt with an embroidered ornament was originally worn. A sundress with wide straps was put on top of it. A similar outfit was decorated with a festive apron and a beautiful belt.
The bride always wore a kokoshnik on her head - a hat with an open back. It was believed that a girl herself should embroider an ornament on a shirt, but now you can buy clothes with machine embroidery.
The groom put on a shirt with long sleeve and trousers. Moreover, all ornaments had to be made from the same threads as the bride’s outfit.
A wedding is a day that will be remembered for a lifetime. So that you remember this celebration with warmth and trepidation, make every effort to organize it.
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