Instruction
Under no circumstances should you attempt to treat your husband's alcoholism on your own. It won't lead to anything. Moreover, in some cases, such self-treatment often leads to a worsening of the situation.
In all cases, remember: only a person who himself experiences such a desire can stop drinking. Alcoholics are divided into two types: the first fundamentally do not want to stop drinking, and the second wish, often very strongly, but cannot because of the presence of physical dependence. If your husband is Type 1, try to convert him to Type 2 before taking any further steps.
In no case do not try to write down, belonging to the first type, to specialists who sew in the Esperal or Torpedo capsule or encode. This one will drink despite the presence of a capsule or "code", as a result of which he will simply die. He will consciously take such a step, because what in our minds seems completely ridiculous, in our opinion, is not at all such.
Good results are achieved by patients who want to recover from drunkenness in the Anonymous groups and various rehabilitation centers. In choosing the latter, one should be careful, because dangerous sects can hide under their masks. Remember, however, that if an alcohol rehab center is religious, then it does not necessarily represent a cult. Read about it on the Internet, remembering that, on the one hand, positive reviews can be written by the staff of the center, and on the other hand, negative ones can be deliberately fabricated by ill-wishers in order to discredit the organization. It is best to visit the center on your own and visit its classes, ask about the methods used in it by people who have already been there and successfully healed.
Do not apply for the treatment of alcoholism to persons engaged in psychic practice, as well as using the technique of intimidating patients with any kind of conspiracy theories.
Good results can also be achieved by contacting the department of a regular psychiatric hospital that deals with the treatment of alcoholism. Patients in such departments are kept in much easier conditions than other patients in the same hospital, they are allowed to use radios and cell phones with Internet access. The course of treatment lasts about a month.
After your husband has stopped being an alcoholic, do everything you can to avoid a relapse. Pay more attention to him, invite him to find an interesting hobby, if he doesn’t have one yet, to take up any sport, from swimming to chess. Make birthdays, wedding anniversaries and other holidays completely alcohol-free. Remember that even after complete healing, your husband still needs to continue to visit the group, rehab, or doctor periodically.
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How to live with an addict. How to live with an alcoholic - alcoholism is a disease, a person becomes dependent on his habit, but those who live next to him also become psychologically dependent. If the husband is an alcoholic (player, drug addict), then wives, children, mothers of alcoholics, drug addicts, and players are interdependent. Before that, you did everything in order to help your husband get rid of addiction. If the husband is an alcoholic, you created comfortable conditions for him to live.
The behavior of some males can sometimes be considered extremely inadequate. Whether this behavior is caused by jealousy, alcohol intoxication, an unsuccessful streak in life, or something else, is not so important. Sometimes a woman no luck with a man, and she understands this too late, when she has been married for more than a year, the children are growing up, and then one by one the “skeletons” from his “closet” begin to fall out, or he becomes too boring and bothers worse than a steamed turnip.
At this moment, for the first time in her life, she wonders how to kick her husband out of the house or how to get rid of an unbearable roommate, feelings for whom have already died. We will answer these questions as fully as possible.
Often, personal feelings and affection for a douche husband remain despite his disgusting behavior. This factor keeps many women from getting their lives in order and stop letting others ruin them.
Since no prayers for that so that the husband gets rid of does not exist in nature, in such situations the best solution would be a lapel. This rite will help to leave behind those feelings that cloud your mind and prevent you from living a normal life. It is important to spend it at night when the moon is waning. Then his strength will be maximum, since the waning luminary symbolizes the wife's gradually disappearing feelings for her husband. Ordinary church candles will help to multiply the effect.
Conspiracy with water
One of the most effective rituals is the lapel on freezing water, which is held in winter. Here is a step by step guide:
You will feel the cooling of your feelings when you come home, if not earlier, at the moment of instilling a glass.
There is another ritual with a glass of water, more ancient. For him, you still need a nail and a couple of candles. The ritual takes place around midnight. You must be alone in the room. Here's what to do:
It also happens that even after a divorce, a man simply does not want to lower a woman and continues to pursue her, creating problems for her. If you have just such a case, then the rituals described below will help you finally throw your ex-spouse out of your head and out of life. The first one is quite simple:
- At night, in utter solitude, stand by the mirror.
- Looking into the eyes of your reflection, say the spell three times: “As I let you go, (name of your ex-husband), so you let me go. May I disappear from your heart like a ship sailing out of port.”
After this ritual, your ex will change his attitude towards you and he will leave you behind.
However, this spell does not always work. If the divorced spouse was too attached to you, then it would be best try the following rite:
- Take out church candles, exactly thirteen pieces. In addition, you will need any item that belongs to the ex-husband.
- Wait for the full moon. At midnight, find a secluded place, light candles and place your ex's item next to them in plain sight.
- In your thoughts, return to the moment when you experienced your divorce from him, remember all the feelings that you experienced at the same time, the pleasant feeling of liberation from tyranny.
- Now, in your head, project all these emotions onto your husband, imagine that you are experiencing the same emotions in his body.
- Further, looking at the object that belongs to him, say the words of the conspiracy: “Go away, husband, destroying all ties, never returning to them again. You've already agreed to a divorce, don't give us both more trouble. Let nothing else happen between us and complete, final discord will take place. Let it be so!"
- To enhance the effect, you can continue: “At this moment I reject my husband, I no longer need him in my life. Let the fire burn our ties so that the husband goes home! Let it be so!"
- Next, just snuff out the candles and throw them away.
- The thing that you spoke must be returned to the former back in some way. The magic will start working the second he picks it up.
Ritual with salt
If you have not yet divorced, but the process has already begun, you can speed it up with the help of a ritual using a handful of salt. Here's what to do:
- Wait for the phase of the waning moon.
- Read the words of the spell over a handful of salt at midnight: “Salt, salt, you are tasteless, salty, help me to drive my husband away from me as soon as possible. Make it so, salt, that he leaves our house sooner and leaves me and my children (if you have them) alone. Together with him we will no longer be, children will not be rocked, we will not live together, we will not sleep together. As I scatter this salt, so we will part with him forever, letting go of each other, wishing each other happiness. Amen!"
- These words must be repeated nine times.
- A charmed handful of salt must be poured onto the threshold that your husband crosses every day.
If everything is done correctly, the ceremony will take effect after the husband steps over this salt for the tenth time. The magical properties possessed by the most ordinary salt are enormous. She is even capable of holding back the strongest demons. If you scatter it at the threshold, evil spirits simply will not be able to enter the house.
Ritual with a knife
There are situations when a person simply refuses to give you a divorce. In such cases, the following rite will come in handy:
- Choose a men's day: Monday, Tuesday or Thursday. The time of day doesn't matter.
- Pour clean water into a small container and bring it to a boil.
- Take a knife with a black handle (this is a must)
- With its tip, draw a cross on boiling water, while repeating the words of the conspiracy: “Like the devil running from the sacred cross and the church, so my husband, by name (his name), let him run away from me, but from the house that was for him relatives. My will is unshakable, the word is truthful, and the deed is easy. Let him leave me (again his name) to all parts of the world, but do not look back. May what I say come true. Amen!"
- After that, the water can be poured into the sink.
Lapel according to the photo
As you might guess, in order to carry out this simple ceremony you will first need a photograph of your husband. Yes, not just your husband, it should be a relatively recent photo (no more than six months), in which, in addition to your spouse, you are also present. It would be ideal if only both of you are depicted on it. In addition, you will need to get a candle and two plates of vinegar. Here is a description of the process itself:
After the divorce you so desired happens, you can throw all this paraphernalia into the trash.
The described rituals are very effective, however, it is necessary to focus on certain thoughts in order for them to work.
In addition, you just need to follow absolutely all the instructions above. Thus, if you write down the words of the conspiracy on a piece of paper, try not to be seen by anyone except you, and after the ritual, burn it. Absolutely everything related to the rite must be kept in complete secrecy, so that no one can find a single trace of your rite.
Among other things, using lapel conspiracies, it is important to be aware that they do not have a retroactive effect. In the event that everything works out, no one and nothing will return your feelings for the person you once loved. Therefore, think carefully about whether this is really what you need. Perhaps a single quarrel arose just as a result of a small misunderstanding and your life together can still be turned in the right direction.
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The behavior of the husband is not always adequate. Some spouses offend their wives, behave disgustingly, drink, walk, do not take care of children, do not provide for the family and do not appreciate loved ones. In these cases, the best way out is to leave the husband. Special rituals help to get rid of a man who has become unlovable. Some of them can be done on your own.
Lapel from husband
Sometimes feelings that, despite the terrible behavior of a spouse, can remain with a woman, interfere with establishing a personal life. In such situations, you can independently hold a lapel from your husband. This rite will help turn a man away from himself. It is very important to carry out the lapel during the waning moon.
Then the rite will have real power and will surely help you get rid of your spouse. The light of church candles will help to strengthen the effect of the lapel. The best time for magic action is night. Remember that you can not tell anyone about the rituals performed, especially your spouse. Otherwise, the effect of magic can dissipate.
“As the devil runs from the cross of the saint, and from the Orthodox church, so let my husband (name) run from the porch of his native, and from me. My will is strong, the word is true, but the deed is easy. (name of spouse) will go from me, (name of wife) to all 4 sides, and will not look back. May it come true what is said. Amen!"
For this ritual, you need to find a knife with a black handle. After the ceremony, water can be poured out. The ritual should be performed on a men's day: Monday, Tuesday or Thursday.
With photo
Helps get rid of an unhappy marriage photo rite.
To do this, you need a picture taken with your spouse no more than six months ago, a candle and 2 saucers with acetic acid. Perform the ritual at midnight. The photograph must be torn into 2 parts, exactly separating the husband and wife. Burn the edges of the resulting parts a little over the flame of a candle to blackness and put them in different saucers with vinegar. Speak the magic words:
“If there is no life for us (names), then let the righteous force break this stupid union!”
Place the saucers in a dark, secluded place. No one can see them. After 2 days, pour out the acetic acid and continue the ceremony. Light the same candle and repeat the plot over parts of the photo.
At the same time drip on the pictures with wax. When it dries and glues the photos to the saucers, take everything to a deserted place. Break the saucers on a hard surface, such as a paved road. Shards of dishes, without mixing, collect in 2 bags and save until divorce. Then the used items can be thrown away.
Rituals are lapel and effective, but not easy to perform. It is important to focus on your goal and follow all instructions exactly. If you write down the words of the conspiracy on a piece of paper, after the action it should be burned over a candle flame. It is impossible for anyone to see the magic phrases. Turning to the rites, you need to understand that they may not have retroactive effect. Think carefully before resorting to such means.
Alcoholism is a serious disease characterized by strong psychological dependence. Not all addicts can independently realize their illness, not to mention the fact that they decide on complex treatment. Many wives ask themselves the question: “How to save a husband from alcohol addiction?”, Since not only the addict himself, but also his whole family suffers from this ailment.
Recognition of addiction
Until the alcoholic himself realizes his problem, and in general, its presence, it will be very difficult to treat him, and besides, it will be ineffective. Unless by coercive means. But after the forced detoxification, the husband will need everything exactly.
Of course, it is not worth convincing an addict to be treated at the time of intoxication. You should talk to the sick person when they are sober and offer to help. In this case, screaming will definitely not help, you need to constructively explain to the person his problem, express understanding. You should not hide your feelings either, you need to make it clear to the addict that you feel resentment, fear and anger from the current situation.
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How can I get my husband to stop drinking alcohol? It's no secret that addicts often deny their addiction completely. And to change that, you need the right motivation. This requires toughness, courage and, most importantly, honesty from the wife in order to try to open her husband's eyes to her problem.
Recognition of addiction is already a big step on the road to recovery. Sometimes this may require forced treatment. It is also called motivational, that is, they clean the body, removing a person from intoxication. And only then talk with the addict.
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Sometimes it is simply necessary to isolate a person from alcohol without his consent, so that in the future he can realize his problem. Namely, after his physical well-being improves.
There are times when an alcoholic will admit his addiction after certain life problems. Psychologists call this state "bottom". That is, you need to sink to the very bottom in order to push off from it and heal. For example, it can be the care or death of a loved one, serious illness, etc.
What is not worth wasting time on?
Many, wanting to achieve quick results, resort to ineffective methods of addiction treatment.
These include:
- Coding carried out in various ways, for example, stitching, hypnosis, injections, etc. But it should be noted that only 1% of addicts remain sober after that. Quite often, people hold on for about a year, and then everything goes smoothly. First, a person tries a small amount of alcohol, and realizing that nothing terrible is happening, he starts drinking again. At the same time, addicts are no longer afraid of possible harm to health and even a threat to life.
- Grandmothers-conspirators, sorcerers, shamans, etc. All these people are charlatans and it is not worth wasting time on this. Many often, being in despair, turn to such people, but this is not only ineffective, but also quite expensive. The addict may, after visiting various conspiring grandmothers, not drink alcohol for some time, but this is only due to self-hypnosis and motivation. After that, a breakdown occurs, and dependence manifests itself with renewed vigor.
- ethnoscience recommends various herbs, infusions, decoctions, teas, etc. Alcohol addiction cannot be cured with the help of traditional medicine methods. All the proposed remedies are prophylactic, that is, they can only cleanse the body of toxins for a while. For a complete cure, psychological help is still needed.
- Medicamentous "miracle remedies". All the new drugs that promise to cure alcoholism are also prophylactic drugs. They can only cleanse the body. This may be just the first step on the road to recovery. New drugs that are being released today are able to block certain receptors. And accordingly, one such tablet is not enough. For a complete cleansing of the body, a system of drugs is needed.
This also includes a one-time detox. Many people think that you can take a dip once and not want to drink again, this is not true. After detoxification, psychological rehabilitation is required.
Complex treatment
How to cure a husband of alcoholism? This is a fairly relevant question. It is important to understand that this disease can only be cured in a complex way, and there are no quick ways.
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Detoxification
The first step in alcohol addiction treatment is a body cleanse or detox. But if your husband has not been drinking alcohol for 2 weeks, then you can not carry it out, but immediately proceed to psychological rehabilitation.
Rehabilitation program
Being in a rehabilitation center is a very important step in the treatment of alcoholism, since the main problem is psychological dependence. And it is very important that psychologists help to cope with it. They help a person to realize that he is addicted, and then help develop new habits, skills, fill the spiritual and moral spheres of a person, and generally change thinking.
At this stage, the main changes of the alcoholic take place. Therefore, you need to carefully choose a rehabilitation center. In Russia at the moment there are quite a lot of such establishments. And everyone guarantees that he is the best. When choosing, it is better to rely on reviews, specialists, and the rehabilitation program that they work on.
We recommend choosing a center that practices. This is an effective technique and it has been proven all over the world. It has been used to treat alcohol addiction for over 50 years, and tens of thousands of addicts have been cured of alcoholism.
Timing is very important at this stage of treatment. The course of psychological rehabilitation should be at least 6 months. Only in this case there are high chances that a person will stop drinking alcohol. Namely, 87% of rehabilitators remain sober after 6 months in a rehabilitation center. 25% of rehabilitators are clean after 4 months in the center and only 10% are clean after 1 month of treatment.
Social rehabilitation
When a person returns from a rehabilitation center, the treatment must continue. It is very difficult for an alcoholic to return to society after a rather long period of rehabilitation. And a specialist, that is, a psychologist, should help the addict to adapt in society. This is what social rehabilitation or after treatment program consists of.
At the same time, the addict visits a psychologist several times a week. Working with a specialist will help overcome fears and, most importantly, start living happily.
You should also attend Alcoholics Anonymous groups during this period. On them, a person can tell his story and listen to the stories of others. Such groups are attended by people who have not consumed alcohol for 10 or more years. Their stories and example are very motivating. The addict will understand that without alcohol you can live happily and be a successful person.
Alcoholics Anonymous meetings are also a big step towards overcoming alcoholism. The wife may attend these meetings with her husband, but only on days when independent guests may come to the group. As a rule, this happens once a week. Thus, you can not only express your support, but also learn a lot of useful things for yourself. Also, the wife can visit a group of co-dependents, this is where the relatives of alcoholics gather.
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Not every couple who married legally can maintain love and good relations for many years, and then squabbles and scandals come to replace passion. But in any case, the situation can be solved in several ways, and divorce is considered the most radical method. But not all spouses want to voluntarily give the green light to an official divorce - in this case, a conspiracy to get rid of the tyrant's husband will help. By the way, we have already published a series of effective conspiracies, in one of the past articles.
In this regard, everything can be much simpler - just draw a lapel from your husband. After all, sometimes you really want to improve your female happiness, and the tyrant husband does not give a divorce and constantly terrorizes the family. The performed magical ritual will simply turn your husband away from you - such a ritual should be performed on the waning moon, when he will act for sure and with the highest power.
In addition, you can supplement the ritual with church, wax candles, but the best time to implement it is the time after sunset and before sunrise. Do not tell anyone about your ritual to anyone, and even more so to your own husband - otherwise the magic simply will not work and will not bring the desired result.
The first ritual is performed on frozen water - it is carried out in the winter months. The names of the spouses are written on a blank piece of paper and after such a note is attached from the inside to the bottom of a faceted glass, it is poured with plain running, not boiled water. At this point, say the following words aloud:
“Like water freezes in winter, so let her / his heart cool down, like this water freezes - let love ... name ... for her husband freeze forever"
After that, put the glass in the cold - on the balcony or outside the window and leave it there for a week. The freezer in this case is not suitable - no one should touch the glass and see it for a week. And at the end of the weekly period - bury this glass of frozen water under a birch or alder, as well as a pine. After that, do not turn around and leave - as practice shows, after 3 days, a gradual cooling of feelings will appear between the spouses.
You can also perform another ritual on the lapel of the spouse - in this case we are talking about a ceremony with 2 church candles. You will also need to prepare consecrated water in advance - a glass and a nail will be enough. Then at midnight, cover the table with a white tablecloth and light both candles, put a glass of holy water between them.
While you are performing the ritual - constantly think about your husband and how he leaves you and no longer bothers you, imagine how you live separately, happy and free, as before marriage. After that, glow the tip of the nail over the flame of the candle and lower it into the consecrated water and say out loud:
“Just as water cools the passion in me / or my husband, so the iron cools down quickly, so I / my husband will part from each other.”
Then just go to bed and don't talk to anyone until morning.
For the husband to leave
How to turn your spouse away from you? How to make the annoying tyrant - the spouse just leave you, calmly, without tantrums, sign the documents for divorce, you can perform the following ceremony. It is carried out exclusively on the waning night luminary, when at midnight you take salt in your left palm and looking out the open window read aloud 9 times the words:
“Salt is needed to live, and if there is a lot of it, it’s completely tasteless. So it is for me as a servant of God ... name ... yes, a servant of God ... name ... disgusted, but it is not tasty for him to live with me, but to share years. Help me salty salt and get rid of my husband, bring melancholy - a twist from my heart, so that he leaves and forgets about me.
Such charmed salt should be sprinkled on the threshold through which a man most often crosses and already after 3-4 weeks the spouse himself will ask for a divorce.
How to get rid of an ex-spouse
Just perform rituals for divorce - such rituals will help you get rid of your tyrant and alcoholic husband, who poisons life and at the same time does not give the go-ahead for a divorce. Spell for divorce - on the waning moon and at midnight stand in front of a large, preferably full-length mirror and say three times:
“Like I’m a servant of God ... name ... let you go, so are you yes a servant of God ... the name of my husband ... let me go - like ships in the sea and in different directions diverge, so we will part forever.”
After that, you yourself will soon see how your spouse’s attitude towards you will change and he himself will support your desire to get a divorce - you just have to wait a while. You can also resort to the help of another effective ritual to turn away your husband - a tyrant - get 13 wax candles in the temple in advance and, plus, prepare some thing for your spouse.
Retire at midnight in a room so that you are not disturbed and light all the 13 candles prepared, spread your spouse’s thing on the table in front of you and mentally imagine your divorce. After that, it is worth saying the words over it:
“Like those candles burn brightly, so let 13 dark devils create our pitch-perfect divorce - they take away the spouse and destroy ties, but there will be no more dirt in the soul. If my husband agrees to a quick divorce, and I won’t have any more trouble from him - a gap will take place between us, but nothing more will happen to me.
To enhance the effect of the ritual at times, you can say one more phrase:
“Today I drive away my husband - I don’t need him anymore. I burn all the bridges and call for a divorce between us - mind you, I remove him from my life, he will leave and will not return.
After that, it is worth putting out all 13 candles with your hands, without blowing them out and just throwing them away, but the thing you have spoken should be returned to your husband and made so that he puts it on. You can repeat the ritual only on the next full moon, not earlier than if it does not work the first time.
Salt ritual
“Salt is salty and tasteless, help the servant of God ... name ... get rid of my husband - let him leave my house. Not a century for us to age, a bed - not to divide, not to raise small children. As I sprinkle the threshold of the house with salt, so he will forget me - yes, white salt will help me, drive black thoughts out of a man’s heart.
Such a ritual is carried out exclusively on the waning moon and at midnight, they read it for 9 days in a row, and already on the 9th day they sprinkle it on the threshold of their own house. The husband simply will not be able to live in this house, and after a decade, the relationship between you will begin to fade.
Divorce ritual with a knife
If the spouse continues to harass you and at the same time does not give you a categorical divorce, you can resort to the following ritual with a knife, the handle of which is black. It is worth pouring water into a small bowl and putting it on fire - when it boils, draw a cross on it with a blade on the water and at the same time say:
“Like the devil runs away from the cross of the saint, but hides from the Orthodox church behind 7 locks, so you are my husband, a servant of God ... name ... you are running away from me. Let the servant of God go ... the name of the husband ... from the servant of God ... his own name ... but on all 4 sides without looking back.
After that, water should be poured over the threshold, but it is better to spend it on a men's day during the week, Tuesday or Thursday, Monday.
Ritual in the photo
The presented ritual is popular in that it can be performed not only by a spouse interested in divorce, but also by one of the closest, blood relatives, if they see that marriage brings more misfortune. To conduct it, it is worth taking a photo exclusively of the spouse and such that no one else is on it.
After that, it is worth conspiring on this photo of the spouse - the main thing is to see his eyes well during the ceremony. In addition to photography, you should pre-prepare wax candles purchased in the temple and a flat metal bowl and matches, as well as a clean table covered with a white tablecloth. It is worth spending it in seclusion in a room when no one bothers you - lay out all the ritual objects on the table and let them lie on the table from morning until evening. In the evening, after sunset, put your hand on the photo and say the following words:
“In that photo, you are as if alive, but you are standing next to me, and therefore I have power over you, as I say, so you will do, but leave me.”
After that, from the match, you personally set fire to the candle and the picture itself is already further from its fire - it is worth holding the burning photo over the container with water so that the ashes fall into it. While the photo is burning, say the words of the lapel:
“Lapel - I bring the cold down and with a blue flame and black ash I burn this photo. Yes, do not be servants of God ... the names of the spouses ... together, they will not love each other. From now on, husband, accept my decree - we should not be together, and the powers of heaven will help me and help me.
Burn the photo to the ground and then throw the ashes out the open window. At the same time, let the candles burn out, and after the cinders, it is worth wrapping them in a rag and burying them in a park or forest belt, away from the place where people walk. At the same time, in the process of instillation, say:
“This lapel comes into force - may everything that is said come true.”
As practice shows, within a month, a couple without squabbles and scandals will amicably break off the marriage. As you can see, it is very simple to conduct a ritual to break a marriage and get rid of a spouse - a tyrant - and even a beginner can do it. The main thing is to follow the instructions and you will definitely succeed.