What to talk about with a girl - this topic is probably of concern to many guys. It’s not a good idea to discuss the weather with her. What should we talk about - movies, music, hobbies, studies, relationships? How to start a conversation and maintain it in order to remain an interesting interlocutor and make the right impression?
What to talk about with a girl when meeting her
Usually it is meeting a girl that causes difficulties - you have to somehow approach and say something so that they don’t immediately refuse you and start a conversation.
You need to act according to the situation: do you often walk in this park? I really like it here too. Would you like me to show you my favorite shop? By the way, my name is Sergei, what about you?
Or: can you tell me where the nearest good gift store is? I need to choose a present for my mother for her anniversary. What is the best gift to give to a woman, won’t you help me?
If you notice that the girl is preening, give her a compliment, smile and the conversation will start on its own.
In the store: girl, tell me which belt is best suited for these jeans, I see you are dressed with taste, can you help me choose the right one?
For every situation, you can come up with a completely adequate phrase for getting to know each other. You can even practice this skill - you walk down the street, see pretty girls and mentally imagine what to say to start a conversation.
Conversation with a girl - how to behave
Often when communicating, it is not even important what to talk about, but how to do it. You need to not be uptight, but you shouldn’t behave cheekily either. How to save the situation if there is an awkward pause? What do girls even want?
There are a few main points to pay attention to:
- be natural, don’t pretend to be some kind of macho or pompous snob looking down on everyone, there’s no need to be too “clever”, just be yourself;
- be positive - who is interested in bored types who at 18 are already tired of life;
- humor and a smile have never hurt anyone - they love funny people, but if your jokes turn out awkward, then it’s better to do without them;
- when you tell something, add bright colors, because girls are emotional and impressionable people;
- remember or come up with a couple of interesting stories from life (maybe not even your own), the main thing is that it is interesting to listen to them;
- think in advance of several topics for conversation that captivate you: hobbies, travel, fashionable gadgets, music;
- try to talk more about yourself in order to establish contact and build trust, because girls love to talk about themselves;
- know how to listen without interrupting, react to a girl’s stories, maintain a conversation, if you see the topic is interesting to her;
Topics for conversation with a girl
If you strain your brain a little and turn on your imagination, then there are plenty of topics that can be discussed with a girl. Of course, it is worth considering the age of the person you are interested in, her level of development and range of interests.
Study and work . You are interested in what a girl does in life, where she studies or works. Does she like her job, what kind of relationships do they have in the team, what are her plans for the future. Remember funny stories from your practice, the girl will probably also remember something funny, the conversation will definitely not be boring.
Recreation and hobbies . How does she like to spend her free time, where to go? Tell us about how you relax, about your favorite places to spend your leisure time, and invite you to spend the next weekend together.
And hobbies are generally a great topic for discussion. The girl is clearly interested in something - she will be pleased to tell you what a gorgeous bracelet she made from rubber bands, how she won the university swimming competition, what quest she is going to take part in this weekend.
It’s not forbidden to boast a little - you also have a hobby in which you have achieved some success.
You can always talk about cinema and music too. “Have you seen such and such a film... No? We need to see this, let’s go together.”
Invite a girl to a concert of your favorite band, then you will have something to talk about.
Trips. Ask if the girl likes to travel, where she has already been, and where she plans to go.
Tell us about your impressions of your last trip. Discuss which type of vacation is better - beach, visiting exotic countries, or active, with hiking, mountain climbing and rafting.
Cars . Not all girls are interested in this topic, do some research with leading questions.
If she is ready to discuss this, go ahead - ask if she drives a car, if she plans to learn, what kind of cars she likes.
Tell us about your dream car.
Pets . Talking to a girl about pets is practically a win-win option. She doesn't like animals? Dangerous symptom. But this is rare, girls adore all living creatures, even if they don’t keep anyone at home.
Go to the zoo or aquarium together; you will find a topic for conversation during the excursion.
Well, when she has a pet, she will be happy to talk about it. And you - about your own, or something interesting from the world of fauna.
Relationship. The topic is inexhaustible: what she values in guys, with whom she could be happy, what she cannot stand (rudeness, boastfulness, greed, unreliability).
Holidays and gifts. Everyone loves to celebrate holidays, which ones are your favorite? Tell us about your preferences, remember the bright episodes of the New Year, find out what your friend likes, how she celebrates holidays. What gifts impressed the girl and what she dreams of receiving as a birthday present.
Food. The topic is easy, there is something to talk about - culinary preferences, funny stories from childhood (how you were stuffed with semolina porridge, and you demanded grandma’s pies), traditions of family feasts.
The theme simply encourages you to invite a girl to a cafe or a barbecue picnic.
What not to talk about with a girl
There is no need to bring up the topic of former lovers - be it hers or yours. If the relationship is over, it means something didn’t work out; the girl is unlikely to enjoy remembering past grievances.
Your negative comments about your ex-girlfriends will scare away any reasonable girl. You wanted to talk about your love victories - will make you doubt your reliability, why does she need an unfaithful womanizer?
At the first stage of dating, you should not talk to a girl about the following: sex, religion, health, everyday issues. Everything should be slightly romantic and understated.
If you are attracted to each other, then it will be interesting to slowly learn something new: life stories, tastes, cute habits, reactions to your words and actions. 
And it will be easy for a like-minded guy and girl to talk about any topic. The main thing is to find each other. Meet, communicate and look for your soul mate.
Movie- a universal theme. We start with the question: “Have you been to the cinema *?” We find out what he likes to watch, whether he goes to night shows, talk about new releases and invite you to a movie - it’s in the bag!
Hobbies. For example, you roller skate or collect stamps. In the first case, after a short conversation, you can invite him for a ride. If he doesn’t know how, promise to teach him. In the second, tell a romantic story associated with your favorite brand and invite you to see the collection. During the conversation, do not forget to ask what the girl is interested in and give her time to talk about it. 
Literature. Does the girl like to read? If yes, go ahead. What have you been reading lately? Which writer is your favorite? Tell us what you are reading yourself. Maybe you know which book will soon be filmed? Have you already read a new book from a series she likes? Promise to let me read it. 
Museums, memorial places. There are tons of them in any city. You need to pick up a guidebook and remember information at least about those where you visit most often. Then at any moment you can strike your intellect in something like this: “Do you know that Pushkin (James Bond, Carlson) lived in this house?” We are interested in the lady’s favorite places, tell her a romantic story about her favorite park and invite her to take a walk. 
Bad habits. It’s better to talk about “cute” shortcomings: the habit of constantly being late, losing pens, or vice versa - unbeknownst to yourself, collecting them from everyone you know. The main thing is to have fun. 
Money. Talking about how much daily travel and food, CDs, books cost is a good opportunity to start a conversation. True, you shouldn’t drag it out; he’ll think that you’re a miser. After a couple of opinions, move on to another topic. For example, to food. 
Food. From family dinners with grandma’s pies to favorite dishes, exotic seafood, good cafes, barbecue trips, etc. An invitation to your favorite cafe or out of town on the weekend will be completely logical in this case. 
Travel, walks. You can talk about your recent trip. Ask where the girl likes to go, travel, about her favorite weather for walking, where she would like to visit. What do you like best – forests, mountains or diving into the unknown depths of the sea for treasures? 
Cars, transport. Ask if the girl drives a car. If not, is there a desire? What cars do you like? What other transport would you like to control - a spaceship or an armored personnel carrier? Share your thoughts about your dream car. 
Work and study. Tell us a couple of funny situations from your work or educational practice. Ask about relationships in the team: are there common holidays, ask about the bosses and teachers. There will definitely be something in common in these stories, something to laugh at. 
Rest. What do you do on the weekend? Regardless of the answer to the question, we don’t criticize anything, even if the girl doesn’t get off the couch all day, eating kilos of cakes. Maybe she has a terribly stressful job, and this is compensation for stress. Your task is to keep the conversation going. 
Sport. Start carefully with your favorite sports. If you hear that a girl is doing ballet or dancing, do not rush to laugh “at the top of your lungs.” Try at home in front of a mirror, standing on tiptoes, raising your legs, sitting down, jumping and at the same time beautifully waving your arms for a couple of hours in a row. Your torment will have nothing in common with ballet, but you will feel the degree of stress. Famous athletes, gyms, types of swimming, sports tourism - there are a lot of them. 
From sport to health. Here is the time to say that it is better to ride bicycles in the fresh air than to sniff glue in basements. We can philosophize a little on this topic together. Unless, of course, the girl yawns during your moral lecture. 
Religion. Do you believe in God, in fate, are you interested in Buddhism, the history of religions, don’t even believe in chance, etc.? Don’t be shy, ask: does she believe in predestination from above or does she believe that a person creates his own destiny. Do you feel that your meetings are not accidental? Hint about it. This could make for an interesting conversation. 
Relationship. Here you can ask what kind of guy she would like to meet. What he will not tolerate: betrayal, boringness, greed, etc. In response, express your opinions. Ask about your friends, tell us about yours. Just don’t start scrutinizing your ex-girlfriends. 
Children. Kids, younger brothers and sisters, nephews and just acquaintances. There will definitely be something to discuss: funny sayings, pranks, whims. If the lady you choose is already a mother, the conversation can be endless. You can find out how serious the person in front of you is. 
Gifts, holidays. Which holiday is the best? What gifts does he like? Give or receive? About yourself - definitely. For example: you love winter, New Year, Santa Claus and swimming in an ice hole under the tangerine rain wearing only fins. 
Cloth. Be sure to compliment her on her beautiful appearance. Make fun of your favorite jeans. Ask: How does she feel about the guys working the runway? Hint that a woman is beautiful in any clothes - any real man knows this. 
Pets. The topic is a win-win, unless you run into an outright psychopath. Does she have a cat, a dog, a rat, a fish, a parrot? Praise! It is mandatory to talk about your pets. Imagine what your favorite iguana and her guinea pigs would do together. 
Sex. You can shock a girl by immediately announcing your sexual preferences. True, the result will be extremely doubtful. Therefore, wait until your relationship becomes really close. In the meantime, you can talk about famous couples: are they really suitable for each other?
In contact with
Today we will talk about an interesting topic and figure out what you can talk about with a girl?
Hobbies
For example, you like to play a musical instrument, rollerblade, or play video games. In this case, if the girl is also at least a little interested in this kind of thing, then she can be invited to go for a ride. Even if she doesn’t know how to ride, in this case you can offer to teach her. In addition, there is the opportunity to play video games together or play a musical instrument for her.
About leisure
One of the many topics of conversation is how you spend your free time. You can tell what has been interesting in your life recently, where you have gone or what you plan to see in the future. This could be going to the cinema, theater, exhibitions, going out into nature or various trips.
Cinema or other trips
You are always allowed to ask “Did you go to the cinema to see the film...?” This way you can find out what the girl likes to watch and invite you to the film.
Sport
If you enjoy playing a sport, then you should talk about it. If it is some unusual or extreme sport, it will add some points to you. Many girls are interested in these topics and will be interested in listening to you.
Memorable places
Almost every city has interesting museums, theaters, and exhibitions. You need to find out detailed information about them and invite a girl there.
Emotional themes
You can always talk about childhood or your dreams. But know that when you talk about such topics, the girl must completely trust you. These are too personal topics and not worth discussing with everyone. First you need to talk about general topics, and then move on to personal ones.
Food
From simple family dinners to favorite dishes, good cafes, exotic seafood. Invitations to your favorite cafe or picnic.
Cars
Ask if the girl likes cars. Does she know how to drive or wants to learn? Share your thoughts on what kind of car you would like to buy.
Music
Talk to your girl about your and her favorite music, songs, bands. All girls like this topic and you can always share music with her if you have the same tastes.
Study and work
You can talk about funny situations that happened at school or work. Ask about relationships in the team: about management, teachers, etc.
Relationship
Ask what kind of guy she wants to meet. What worries her: tediousness, betrayal, greed, etc. In response, give your opinions. Ask about your friends and tell us about yours. Remember that in this conversation there is no need to bring up ex-girlfriends.
Children
Younger brothers and sisters, babies, nephews and just acquaintances. In such a topic there will definitely be something to talk about: pranks, whims, funny sayings.
Holidays
Ask what her favorite holiday is, what she likes to receive or give. Also tell us about your favorite holiday and gifts.
Pets
Win-win theme! If a girl has various pets, then you can talk forever. Don't forget to tell her about your pet and ask if she would like to have another pet in the future.
Sex
You can shock the girl and during conversations communicate your sexual preferences. But for this you need to wait until your relationship is really close. In the meantime, you can always talk about famous celebrity couples.
In this article we will not talk about how to properly communicate with a girl. Why? Yes, because I already wrote about it. If anyone is interested, read it.
Today’s topic is what you can and shouldn’t talk about with a girl. What words to say to a girl and what not to? In the process of dating, on a date, in the process of seduction. I don’t take the situation when you already live together, have three children and have a cat.
So, the task has been formulated, the goal has been set, now we can reveal the topic (boobs). If you want to meet and seduce a girl, then you need to communicate with her in such a way that:
- she was interested in communicating;
- you could speak easily enough, filling awkward pauses;
- It would also be cool for her to become interested in you during the conversation, that is, for the conversation to show you in a favorable light.
Therefore, topics on which you can enter into a sacred argument are not very good (to put it mildly) for communication in the context of seduction. These are topics such as politics, religion, racism, nationalism. A topic where you may find yourself in a state of holy war with diametrically opposed opinions. I understand that we all love to argue and prove to the enemy the correctness of our point of view. This is all great, of course, but it has nothing to do with seduction.
Most likely, the girl will not be interested in discussing the latest exploits of your favorite football team (there are, however, exceptions, but they always exist, we are trying to highlight the rules), or your exploits in computer games. Of course, you can be an amazing storyteller and captivate a girl with any topic, but if you choose the wrong topic, it will be a little more difficult to captivate a girl.
What can you talk about with a girl? Oh, there really are a lot of such topics. Let's list them.
About leisure. About how you spend your free time, about how she spends her free time. What has been interesting lately, where would you like to go, what to see. This could be trips to the theater, cinema, exhibitions, travel, trips out of town. If, while reading this, you suddenly realized that your whole life boils down to the offer of home-work-home-getting drunk on_Fridays_with_friends, then you should think about planning your leisure time. Appropriate resources to help you.
About art. About music, classical and modern films, photography, painting, architecture. If you are well versed in classical music, can tell a lot of interesting things about the Impressionists and the late Renaissance, regularly visit theaters and can talk about the current repertoire - feel free to bring up the topic of art. Girls are really interested in her.
About sport. If you are involved in some kind of sport and lead a sporty lifestyle, talk to your girl about it. If this is an unusual, or even better, extreme sport, this will add points to you. Alpine skiing, snowboarding, wakeboarding, kitesurfing, classic surfing, parachuting, paragliding. Sea sports. Choose any one you like. By the way, it is also useful to play sports, and not just talk about it.
About friends and relationships. Girls are terrible gossips. Tell them a couple of interesting incidents from your life and the lives of your friends. Watch how she listens to it, how she comments. Most likely, she will tell you something in response about her friends. Friends give us positive emotions; by talking about them, we remember them. It lifts your spirits.
About deep, emotional topics. About childhood, about your dreams. But there is an important point here: before moving on to such topics, the girl must trust you enough. These are quite personal topics and not everyone will discuss them. To begin with, you can talk about general topics, and then move on to personal ones. And one more trick: before asking a girl about her dreams, tell her about yours. If you do everything correctly, with a high probability you won’t even need to ask her, she herself will tell you in response about her dreams.
Young people at a young age often experience problems communicating with the opposite sex. They don’t know how to take the first step, how to look at the object of their passion, or what to say. But girls expect determination and perseverance from guys; they are sure that it is men who must seduce and conquer them.
Of course, it's good for the girls. They sit and wait for a cute boy to come up to them and talk to them. Meanwhile, the unfortunate boy stands on the sidelines, completely unaware of what he can talk about with the girl.
Important points
When communicating with a girl, it is important to interest her, draw attention to your person, show your best side, cheer her up and, of course, be able to listen, because it is known that the female sex loves to chat.
What you can't talk about
There are a lot of topics for conversation, but there are a few that should not be brought up unless you are sure that they are the ones that interest your girlfriend.
- On first dates, you should not start conversations about politics, religion, or nationalism. They can result in a heated argument in which you may find yourself adversaries. By zealously proving your point of view, you are unlikely to seduce a girl. Women don't like stubborn people.
- What you don’t need to talk about with a girl is about the victories and failures of your favorite hockey or football team, or about a new computer game. She will be bored, and boredom is not the best companion in the matter of seduction. Women don't like boring people.
- There is also no need to talk about your former love affairs, past girlfriends, and the like. Every girl wants to feel like she is one and only; she doesn’t need competitors, even former ones. Women don't like womanizers.
What can we talk about
- What can you talk about with a girl? Talk about leisure: theatre, cinema, museums, fashion exhibitions, picnics, hobbies, discos, clubs, restaurants, among these things your interlocutor will clearly find interesting. Here it is important to find something that both like, then the conversation will not need to be “sucked out of thin air”; if the topic is interesting to both, then the conversation will go smoothly without any problems. By the way, cinema or theater is something you can talk about on the phone with a girl, for example, after discussing the latest film release, you can invite her to the premiere. You can discuss which cafes she likes best and invite her there. Women love attentive men.
- Art is a deep topic, but if you both read, understand painting or music, and can tell something that will show the strength of your intellect, then why not show off your knowledge. Women love smart men.
- Sports is also a rather capacious topic, especially if you are interested in any kind of it. Wives love brave men who ski or snowboard, parachute jump, paraglide, or scuba dive. Even if you just go to the gym on Tuesdays and Thursdays, that will do. It is quite possible that your girlfriend is also involved in fitness. Then you will also have something in common.
- Discuss relationships, friends, acquaintances, or just pets. Tell interesting and funny incidents from their life and yours. She also probably has a couple of funny stories about her girlfriends. Women love funny people.
- All girls love deep emotional themes. True, you shouldn’t talk about them on the first date. First, the girl must gain confidence in you. Be the first to start this thread. Tell about your dreams, about strong feelings and emotional experiences experienced once upon a time, and she herself will pick up this conversation, opening her soul to you. Women love attentive and sensitive men.
This list of things to talk about with a girl should, in principle, be enough for the first time. In the future, as events unfold, you will most likely find something in common that connects you, topics that are interesting to both. Or it may happen that this girl becomes so interesting to you that you no longer begin to select topics and words, they themselves will flow from your heart. And if this does not happen, then perhaps this is simply not your girl, and you just need to look for another. Good luck!