Quite often, newlyweds, when ordering a wedding photo shoot, make a number of mistakes that lead to rather sad consequences, and their realization comes later. For example, when viewing a finished wedding album or printed photographs. And, unfortunately, the newlyweds themselves are mostly to blame. A wedding is an event, and when preparing for it, you often miss many important moments, simply because you need to keep track of literally everything. Let us give an example of quite frequent and common mistakes.
15 common wedding mistakes
This material will be of interest to anyone who is soon planning to legalize their relationship with their significant other.
Photographer's choice
One of the decisive factors for a high-quality wedding photo shoot is the right photographer. This is an important day in your life that will not be repeated, so you need to look for a professional who will not let you down. Yes, exactly a professional who produces a guaranteed result, and who always has a second camera or an assistant with a camera. Expensive does not mean high quality, but cheap means most likely a beginner photographer. Be sure to study the portfolio and carefully read reviews on social networks. If you like the photos and the person seems interesting, arrange a pre-wedding love story shoot. This will certainly help you understand that you made the right choice, especially since many photographers offer free pre-wedding photography.
Wedding style
Probably every bride, in her dreams, sees a wedding as an event that should be remembered by her, her future husband and all the guests they invite. A wedding should be fabulous, fun and lively. One that friends and acquaintances will talk about for a long time. In fact, most often young people are faced with the financial side of the issue and improvisation goes into battle. Wild West style wedding? Easily! Hats, vests, boots. What's the end result? Half of the guests are in jeans and shirts, the other half look like they robbed someone on the way (I need your clothes and motorcycle (c)). There are many examples.
In rare cases, the bride (or the bride with her husband, or just the husband), with the help of friends and acquaintances, or on her own, finds an option in which the bride and groom look amazing, friends and acquaintances buy or find suitable outfits in their bins /costumes, and everything comes down to a single style. And if newlyweds, when choosing the style of their wedding, consult with an experienced photographer or organizer, then with a high probability the wedding will go as planned.
Where to attach the boutonniere?
Boutonniere is translated from French as “flower in the buttonhole.” Newlyweds who respect traditions do not forget about this accessory. Attached to the lapel of a jacket, or placed in a pocket. Usually the boutonniere matches the style of the bride's bouquet, and traditionally the bride pins it on her husband's suit after he gives her the bouquet.
Pale bouquet
This option is more suitable on a bright sunny day. But in cloudy weather, the white dress and the gray sky and this pale bouquet will simply merge. After all, on a cloudy day the shots are not very expressive anyway. Therefore, for an interesting color accent in photographs, it is better to choose a bright bouquet, and the main thing here is not to overdo it with a variety of shades.
Order only one bouquet
The bride traditionally throws her bouquet to her bridesmaids. But not every bouquet is intended for such a procedure. A bouquet that is too light or too lush will not fly away anywhere. Therefore, it is better to order several bouquets in advance. A bouquet with which the bride will spend the whole day. A bouquet with which she will make one of her unmarried girlfriends happy - the small size and special weighting are important here. And one more thing that the groom should remember is a bouquet for his future mother-in-law.
When the wedding is in winter
If you don’t want to freeze even at 10 degrees below zero and don’t want to interrupt the photo shoot ahead of time, here’s some advice - it’s better to wear warm shoes and warm underwear for a winter wedding. After all, being sick after a wedding is not the best thing to do. When the walk is over, you can change clothes without any problems - at the same banquet. This is also true for bridesmaids - they often go for a walk in their shoes and end up not getting out of the car.
They buy champagne, but not water.
This is especially true on hot sunny days. It happens that drinking water runs out first, and not champagne. At a minimum, you can put two one and a half liter bottles of water in each car. In addition, on hot days it is better for the groom to take two more shirts with him. He wears one up to and including the registry office, wears the second for a walk, and the third for a banquet. Of course, it’s more difficult for brides in this regard. But at least you can take more comfortable shoes with you, and sometimes relax in them at a banquet.
Let's take plastic cups of all the colors of the rainbow for a walk
As a result, in photographs they immediately catch the eye, which is very distracting. It is better to take white cups or completely colorless ones. It’s easy to find disposable champagne glasses on sale (the newlyweds can grab something more original or glass for themselves).
The groom decides to shave with a new razor
On your wedding day, it is better to use all proven products. Same with a razor, take an old one, it’s less likely to cut yourself.
I don’t feel like eating in the morning, and I’m afraid my dress won’t fasten.
Breakfast on your wedding day is required. You want a healthy complexion, not pale and tired. Well, after a good breakfast, you can drink 30 grams of cognac - it will also improve your complexion. Which is great for a photo shoot.
I'll finally try to wear contact lenses.
For those who wear glasses and have never worn contact lenses. You shouldn't try to wear contact lenses on your wedding day if you've always worn glasses before. You need to get used to the lenses, and for a long time. And if you’re not used to it, your eyes will become red, and the unpleasant sensations will only worsen the situation. And don’t worry about glare from your glasses in your photos; an experienced photographer will shoot in such a way as to avoid them.
Before the wedding I'll go to the solarium
You should not go to the solarium the day before the wedding; it is better to do it at least a week before the cherished date. Skin reaction can be unpredictable. Redness often occurs, which will not look the best in wedding photos.
Saving on a makeup artist
Everything should be in moderation. Naturally, it’s beautiful.
And you want to look perfect in all the pictures? Therefore, you should not make yourself a plastic doll, with an unnatural complexion and hair shiny from hairspray. A good makeup artist who knows his business will emphasize what is necessary and smooth out what is unnecessary. For photography, the naturalness of the face and hair is especially important. In addition, an experienced makeup artist will make sure that your makeup and hairstyle do not fail throughout the day.
Men should also not neglect preparing their appearance before the wedding. Just getting a haircut or shaving won't do. Not only hair requires preparation, but also face and hands. After all, a photo of hands with rings will certainly be included in the wedding album.
We don't know how to pose
Very often, not only at a wedding, but also at a regular photo shoot, young people do not know how to pose correctly. This ignorance leads to hundreds of damaged frames and many hours of work when processing photographs. And most often men are guilty of this.
Fixing this couldn't be easier. Spend half an hour or an hour looking at good photographs and twirling around in front of the mirror for the same amount. And the pre-wedding photo shoot in this case will become just that training.
Banqueting hall
Choosing a banquet hall is one of the most important issues when preparing for a wedding. It combines factors such as accessibility, beauty, design and, of course, service. One way or another, a banquet hall is not the best place for photography. Light is either dark or too light. The design is either too pompous, or, on the contrary, too dull (if I may say so).
Everyone, as they say, has a taste and color. But still, if you consider the banquet hall as a place where the photo shoot will also be held, the best thing is the golden mean. Cozy, beautiful, good light and decoration.
The groom's wedding look will not be complete without a beautiful and stylish boutonniere. This seemingly small touch can complete the wedding look.
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Boutonniere for the groom
The French are considered the creators of boutonnieres. They were the ones who came up with these wonderful “flowers in buttonholes.” Girls spend a lot of time choosing a wedding bouquet. So, wedding boutonnieres for the groom and his friends also require special attention. These small flowers, pinned to a jacket or shirt, should match the style of the bride's bouquet.
You can make them yourself, or you can order them in salons from florists. There are many instructional videos on the Internet that cover how to make an exclusive boutonniere and attach it to clothes. In principle, you don’t need any special skill here, the main thing is that everything you need is at hand. There are also many photos on the Internet with images of boutonnieres of various styles and shapes. Browse through wedding photos from the latest 2017 collections.
Many grooms are interested in whether a boutonniere is required at all? There is no specific rule or law here. Only the young people can decide whether such decoration is needed on the groom’s jacket. To tell the truth, a regular suit looks too simple, but a little color will add sophistication and elegance to your look.
When choosing an outfit for a wedding, you need to take into account all the nuances and do not forget about accessories. By the way, there are several options for attaching boutonnieres. The groom's friends usually attach them to his shirt, and the head of the party - to his jacket.
If you follow etiquette, the boutonniere is placed in a special loop on the first left lapel of the jacket. But modern men's clothing is sewn without such loops. Therefore, the groom who is going to wear this accessory has only two options: either take the clothes to the atelier, or a simpler and more common option is to attach a flower on a pin. This is as easy as pie, the main thing is to attach the boutonniere carefully so as not to damage the fabric.
Accessories made from fresh flowers
Boutonnieres made from fresh flowers look best, of course. It is always beautiful, natural and original. But you need to provide for all the options; it is best to have a spare composition in case the weather is hot and the boutonniere withers. Now one of the secret tricks of florists is a tiny capsule with liquid for a living flower. By the way, thanks to such a capsule, your jacket will not get dirty from the stem.
The most popular accessories are from:
- carnations (red, white);
- miniature rose;
- orchids;
- gardenias;
- white azaleas;
- callas;
- lilies;
- peonies.
Many people prefer to order an accessory from florists along with the bride’s bouquet, but some still prefer to make the decoration with their own hands. If a man plans to attach the boutonniere to the loop of his jacket, then he must take into account the size of the bud. It should be slightly smaller than the loop itself so as not to fall through and hang down. Make sure that the stem of the plant remains long, it needs to be hidden on the inside of the lapel. Compositions made from fresh flowers are the best solution for a full-fledged exclusive image of the groom!
Satin ribbon boutonnieres
Handmade jewelry has been very popular for several years now. These products truly captivate with their beauty and originality. Sometimes from afar you cannot distinguish a living flower from one made from foamiran.
Chic boutonnieres are made from ribbons. You can make decorations in the shape of a rose. To do this, watch the training video, attend a special master class. Attach the finished flower to the wire, which you have previously wrapped with ribbon, make several leaves, and attach to the jacket. Kanzashi flowers, which you make with your own hands from foamiran, also look very beautiful. Don't be afraid to experiment if you want to truly make your celebration unforgettable. And the groom will be delighted with such a cute handmade decoration. A boutonniere made of satin ribbons will not wither, fall apart or deteriorate. It will be kept for many years as a memorable souvenir, reminding you of the happiest day of your life together.
Accessories for groomsmen
No one argues that the most important things at a wedding are the bride and groom, so all attention is focused on them. But the bridesmaids and groomsmen also experience this day in a special way. They take the places of honored guests and take an active part in the celebration. Therefore, you need to make sure that the clothes and accessories of the groom’s friends match the style of the wedding as much as possible.
If the bridesmaids are busy choosing bouquets for themselves, then for the witness you need to take care of a beautiful boutonniere:
- the boutonniere for the groom's friend should fit into the overall wedding style and combine beautifully with the floral accessories of the newlyweds;
- do not choose a flower that is too large and bulky. This is just a decoration that should not focus all the attention on itself, but should demonstrate your taste and sense of style;
- try to make this accessory stand out against the background of a shirt or suit. Let there be at least a little contrast. It’s great if the boutonniere matches the color of your eyes or other details of your wedding look.
Boutonnieres in blue
To be honest, the color range of such an accessory is quite large. Remember the main rule: flowers should not match the color of the wedding suit or shirt. If everything turns out to be very monochromatic, it will be unattractive and will indicate the poor taste of the young people.
For example, a white boutonniere (that is, consisting of flowers of the appropriate shade) will look great on a dark jacket, but not on a white shirt. This is a classic accessory that will save the day if the color scheme of the wedding is very colorful and it is difficult to decide on a specific shade of flowers.
Lilac or blue boutonnieres look very stylish and original. But they must be combined with something. Perhaps it will be a tie or bow tie of a similar shade. In general, don’t be afraid to wear several accessories at once. Believe me, a boutonniere, pocket square and bow tie can look beautiful in one look. The main thing is to make sure that everything is stylish, harmonious, and matches the bride’s outfit and the overall tone of the wedding. The color of these accessories is selected last, when the festive costume and the bride’s bouquet are ready.
Where is the groom's boutonniere attached?
We already touched on this topic a little at the beginning of the article, but now I would like to focus your attention on the necessary details.
Firstly, I would like to clarify who is wearing this accessory and who is entitled to wear it by right. The groom and his friends, as well as other guests (for example, parents of the newlyweds). There is no such thing as “you have to be married to wear a boutonniere.” Not at all. If you are accompanying a lady to any celebration, and the styles and dress code allow you to use such decoration, then why not?
And although men rarely resort to such exclusive accessories, still once in their lives they have to face which side the flower arrangement should be on, how to wear it correctly, where to attach it, and so on. We will try to answer all your questions.
So, what is the decoration attached to? This could be a jacket, shirt, coat, or even a vest from a three-piece suit. Most often, the product is attached to the left lapel of the chest part of the jacket. Men are interested in how to attach an accessory so that it does not get lost during the celebration. To do this, use flower pins; with their help, the boutonniere can be easily and securely attached to any clothing.
Grooms often wonder what to do with this accessory after the wedding. It all depends on the type of boutonniere. For example, if you chose fresh flowers, then obviously the decoration is thrown away. But handmade artificial boutonnieres (especially if they were made by a loving bride) deserve careful, long-term storage. You can leave the product as a souvenir.
Now you know everything about where and how such a simple decoration is correctly attached. If everything is chosen stylishly and tastefully, then the guests will be delighted and will definitely appreciate every detail in the groom’s image.
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The word "boutonniere" comes from the French boutonnière, which means "buttonhole flower." Today, a boutonniere is an accessory for a men's suit and consists of one or more flowers/buds in a buttonhole.
Boutonnieres appeared in Ancient Greece. In those days, men at wedding ceremonies attached a small bouquet of flowers and herbs to their clothes. This was done in order to protect against evil spirits, and the groom's boutonniere was attached close to the heart. That is, the groom’s boutonniere was not just a decoration, but a “protective measure” - after all, evil spirits, according to legend, could turn his heart away from his betrothed. Well, in Europe, the tradition of decorating clothes with a bouquet appeared only in the Middle Ages. Then knights wore flowers on their chests as a sign of love and devotion to the lady of their heart - and not only at the wedding. Taking off their armor, they pinned the bouquet to their clothes close to their hearts. During the French Revolution, the boutonniere became a symbol of fearlessness: nobles who ascended the scaffold wore a red carnation in their buttonhole - it symbolized fearlessness. At the beginning of the 19th century, boutonnieres were worn by dandies: the flower in the buttonhole became their identifying mark. Representatives of the labor movement - participants in demonstrations - wore a red carnation when red flags were banned - since the 40s of the 19th century.
Nowadays, boutonnieres are not common in everyday life and are a festive accessory.
The groom's boutonniere is part of a tradition that has evolved over centuries. There is a certain rule according to which the bride chooses a boutonniere for the groom, and he, in turn, chooses a bouquet for the bride. But this rule is wrong: it is better for the florist to think about the boutonniere. The shape and composition of the boutonniere depend on the flowers in the bride’s bouquet and on the wedding theme as a whole. The pin with which the boutonniere is attached to the jacket should not be visible from the side. Any decor can be used to decorate a boutonniere: decorative wire, satin ribbons, feathers.
Speaking of materials: a wedding boutonniere can be made from both fresh flowers and artificial ones - from beads, fabric and other materials. It all depends on the florist’s imagination and the wishes of the newlyweds.
If the choice of the bride and groom stops at a boutonniere made of fresh flowers, you should take care of a spare one. Living flowers fade very quickly - even those treated with a special composition. In addition, the fragile petals of fresh flowers may not withstand several careless movements.
Currently, boutonnieres made of artificial flowers, boutonnieres made of satin, and beads are becoming increasingly popular - this is due to a number of advantages. Firstly, the artificial boutonniere will not wither. Secondly, the imagination here is limitless: you can choose any color or texture. Finally, during the cold season, a wedding boutonniere made of artificial flowers is an ideal option. The wedding boutonniere should not be particularly large - this small decoration should complement the groom’s suit, but not distract attention. Therefore, flowers should be small and graceful. It’s good if the wedding boutonniere is decorated with ribbons - with them it looks more elegant. In any case, you need to remember that the groom's boutonniere must match his suit and the bride's bouquet.
Sometimes boutonnieres decorate the suits of the witness and even the suits of the closest male relatives. This is a choice of personal preferences of the couple.
Some men categorically refuse to decorate their wedding jacket with flowers. There is an alternative for them - a pocket square. It can be either white (the classic version, modest and tasteful) or colored - it all depends, again, on the imagination and preferences of the groom. Previously, there was a tendency to select a scarf to match the tie; now this option is considered old-fashioned, and bold contrasts have replaced it. The emphasis on the pocket favorably emphasizes the overall picture and makes the groom’s suit even more stylish.
In general, we can say that there are no specific rules for choosing a wedding boutonniere or scarf: the main thing is that this small accessory harmonizes well with the suit, the bride’s bouquet (if the choice is the “floral” option) and the general mood of the newlyweds .
One of the important touches in the image of the groom is the boutonniere. But few people know where the tradition of decorating the groom’s suit with flowers came from. In this article you will find answers to basic questions about boutonnieres.
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What are boutonnieres?
Word "boutonniere" comes from the French "boutonniere" and translates as "buttonhole flower." Also use for decorations.If earlier, a single flower was used as a decoration, occasionally decorated with various herbs, now a boutonniere is a whole composition of flowers, which can be supplemented with a variety of little things: beads, mesh, twigs or even berries.
Where did the tradition of decorating the groom's outfit with a boutonniere come from?
This custom has come down to us since the times of ancient Rome, where the bride pinned a flower from her bouquet to the groom’s clothes as a sign of love. Later, among the Slavs, brides wove wreaths for their betrothed. For the first time, the boutonniere in its current form was used by the English Prince Albert at a wedding.
Who else besides the groom needs them?
Usually two more boutonnieres are ordered - for witnesses. But there is a tradition according to which the bride decorates her dress with a boutonniere. In addition, you can order boutonnieres for guests to highlight their special status - the father of the bride and the father of the groom, their grandfathers, best men, brothers.
Where and on which side should I attach the boutonniere?
The groom attaches the boutonniere to the left lapel or pocket of his suit. However, if you order boutonnieres for all guests, then traditionally those who are married put it on the right, those who are not - on the left. Brides attach a boutonniere to the neckline (side, center) or even to the skirt of the dress. The witness can attach it to her wrist or to her purse.
How to choose flowers for a wedding boutonniere?
If we follow traditions, then the boutonniere should contain the same flowers that will be used in and harmonize with the bouquet in style. You can also choose a flower with a special meaning for your boutonniere - it can consist of those flowers that were given on the first date, or in accordance with the “language of flowers”.
What is the size?
Usually does not exceed 10 cm in length, including the peduncle.Should the boutonnieres of the groom and guests be different?
There are no special requirements for what kind of wedding boutonnieres should be. But, of course, it is better to highlight the groom and choose smaller and more modest boutonnieres for the guests. You can also order ones consisting of the same flowers as the groom’s, but in different shades. You can choose it for the witness to match the color of the witness’s dress/bouquet. At some weddings, in order to save money, they buy boutonnieres made of artificial flowers for witnesses.
How to attach a boutonniere?
Now, if it is not standard, but slightly curved, then it is attached to the side with a safety pin. And if it’s “classic”, then again, they attach it to the pocket with a pin, and the undraped tail (and with the capsule too) is hidden in the pocket. The hairpin holds the boutonniere and it does not fall. If you need to attach a boutonniere to a thin fabric (for example, a shirt), place the tail of the boutonniere in your pocket and fasten the pin to the inside of the pocket, i.e. to the part closest to the body.
When to attach a boutonniere to the groom?
In most cases, wedding boutonnieres are attached by the bride after the redemption. The groom gives her a bouquet, and she attaches a flower to him as a sign of love. This tradition can be played up by placing a boutonniere in the bride’s bouquet, so that she, like in ancient times, gives her future husband a flower from her bouquet.
Will there be stains on clothes if they are made from fresh flowers?
The pedicels of the flowers that make up the boutonniere are usually wrapped with a special tape or inserted into a capsule, so there will be no contact with the fabric.Where to put the boutonniere after the wedding?
According to tradition, the boutonniere should remain in the house as a family heirloom.Order wedding boutonnieres
What is a boutonniere for the groom? A boutonniere is an important touch in the groom's image. The literal translation from French is “boutonniere” – “flower in the buttonhole”, which is attached to the left lapel or pocket of a wedding suit.
If earlier this accessory consisted of only one flower, now a boutonniere is a whole composition, including not only flowers, but also rhinestones, beads, feathers, twigs and plant fruits.
In short, all the decorative little things that are present in the bride’s bouquet are duplicated in the boutonniere.
The romantic meaning of a boutonniere.
A boutonniere is, one might say, a miniature bridal bouquet. It is believed that several flowers seemed to fall out of the bride’s bouquet; the groom picked them up and pressed them to his very heart. This is its romantic meaning. Therefore, a boutonniere is often made from the flowers that make up the bride’s wedding bouquet.
But it happens that a boutonniere for the groom is very different from a bouquet: this is done if the groom decided to emphasize his wedding image.
Who else needs a boutonniere?
In addition to the groom, the witness and all the groom's friends, father, grandfather, brothers, and other close relatives can decorate their festive costumes with a boutonniere. The main thing is that the accessory on the groom’s lapel is different from the accessories of other wedding participants.
The bride and her bridesmaids can also wear a boutonniere. But lately, brides with their retinue limit themselves only to bouquets in their hands.
What flowers and decor should I choose for my boutonniere?
A boutonniere for the groom made of fresh flowers should consist of the same inflorescences and decorative elements as the bride’s bouquet. One large flower and a couple of additional decorations for the “flower in the buttonhole” will be quite enough.
As for the size of this accessory, it should not be more than 10 cm.
Where to attach the boutonniere?
Traditionally, the groom attaches his wedding accessory to the left lapel of his suit. You can “plant” the boutonniere on the left pocket. As for wedding guests, married people fasten it on the right, and bachelors on the left.
For the bride, the boutonniere is attached along the neckline on the left side. The witness can wear such jewelry on her hand or attach it to her purse.
Boutonniere for the groom: how to attach?
The boutonniere can be fastened with a pin, skillfully hiding the place of fixation in such a way as to disguise it behind the flowers and fabric of the jacket. Typically, florists provide the boutonniere with invisible pins that perfectly camouflage it in the buttonhole.
Of course, the bride must attach the boutonniere to her loved one’s tuxedo, tailcoat or jacket with her own hands, so she needs to first practice by making an imitation of a small bouquet herself.
How to prolong the freshness of flowers in a bouquet?
To prevent moisture from evaporating from the flower, florists use a special tape. First, cotton wool soaked in a special nutrient solution is wrapped around the stem, then the top is again covered with another piece of green cotton wool. Finally, tape is tightly wound around the stem.
Of course, in the heat, such a boutonniere made of fresh flowers will not last more than 6-7 hours. Therefore, in this case, it is better to buy an additional boutonniere to replace the faded composition.
But you can order a boutonniere with a mini capsule that contains moisture. “Flower in the buttonhole” with a capsule will withstand prolonged exposure to heat.
Artificial flower boutonniere
The advantages of a boutonniere made from artificial flowers are obvious: it does not wrinkle, always looks great, and is lightweight and easy to fix.
This accessory is especially indispensable in winter or in sultry heat, when there is no chance of a long-lasting beautiful appearance, and especially during a photo shoot in cold winter or hot summer.
Whatever original boutonniere the bride chooses for the groom, the only fundamental thing will be the feeling of love that arises in her heart at the sight of such a small bouquet on the broad chest of her future husband.
Boutonniere for the groom photo:
